Having finally gotten around to re-playing DAII, this is the first thing that struck me as incredibly stupid that I didn't notice the first time around. All those comments about it being a pigsty with cheese in the corners that you recognize from the year before? By then Hawke and his/her family have lived in Gamlen's house - which is larger than anything they can possibly have been used to - for that entire year, after two or three decades living like peasants in Ferelden.
It didn't occur to any of them to clean it up?
I agree 100%, and I've been saying the same thing since Day 1.
Yeah... I haven't actually played the game, just watched detailed walkthroughs and cutscenes on Youtube, so I'm not as invested in the Hawke family as most players. I don't go in feeling like "This is ME. This is MY family." So from a more impartial perspective, I was really struck by how arrogant and self-entitled the Hawke family came across as.
On some level, I get it--they just lost everything, they were hoping for riches but got a hovel, they have disappointed expectations, etc. But I don't like how they act like they're entitled to get riches just because they want it, then act like they were personally robbed when told "no" even before learning what happened there. You don't deserve a fortune just for wanting it, guys.
And you actually made a good point I hadn't considered before. They've supposedly lived like peasants in Ferelden for decades, so Gamlen's house shouldn't be much different from the lifestyle they're used to. Even if his house isn't as big or clean as theirs, the lifestyle difference shouldn't be that much of a shock to them. It's like if *knocks on wood* disaster befell my whole city and I had to move out of my rented room in a three bedroom, two bathroom house to go live with relatives, and I was told I'd get to live with them in a large mansion, but wound up in a two bedroom, one bath apartment where I had to pitch in with housekeeping and rent. Yeah, compared to a mansion a little apartment isn't that much, but it's also not much worse from what I've lived with my whole life. I'm used to small houses with only a few bedrooms and bathrooms; of living with others, sharing household responsibilities, paying rent, etc. I wouldn't whine about it forever.
I get that it's Gamlen's job to clean up after himself in principle, and while you could also make the argument that in a pseudo-medieval society it really would be Leandra's, Bethany's and Fem!Hawke's responsibility as the ladies of the house I don't care about that. What I care about is basic common sense. If you want to live somewhere remotely clean and nobody else wants to handle it, you either force them to or you handle it yourself.
I agree. While I know one could make the argument that Hawke and Bethany/Carver are working hard in indentured servitude... Leandra herself is not doing anything.
And it's confirmed if you bring Bethany in the Legacy DLC: "I've tried to get mother to look for work, or reconnect with some of her childhood friends. But she went to visit the Comte de Launcet once, and now she refuses to try again. She says it's just 'too pathetic.'" So... she wouldn't get a job, would ask her old rich friends for financial help, and she sits on her butt complaining about the mess she refuses to clean up? In my lower middle class world, if you're not going to get a job or pay rent, the very least you can do is help out with housework. Bare minimum. But Leandra won't even do that. She just sits around complaining about how the world owes her riches, when she won't even do basic housekeeping.
Thinking about Leandra complaining about her loss of status - after the aforementioned twenty-to-thirty years as the wife of an apostate, doing nothing in the way of even rudimentary cleaning while her kids work and fight with their lives to pay off their entrance into the city she dragged them to and give her her childhood home back makes my blood boil, and it puts the entire motivation of the Hawke family in a pretty unflattering light.
Yeah, that really infuriates me about her, as I detailed above.
You also make a good point about Leandra's behavior in the game not matching that of her supposed history. As the wife of an apostate, shouldn't hard work and cooking and housekeeping become second-nature to her now? One of her first lines in the game is to lament, "The life your father and I built--all gone!" Yet she doesn't do anything throughout the game--doesn't get a job, cook, clean, or anything. She just sits around complaining about how she and her kids deserve to be waited on hand and foot, while letting her kids run around risking life and limb to pursue riches she herself won't do anything to work for. (Instead, she just sits around nagging Gamlen to produce her parents' will, then goes to nag the Viscount to produce the mansion left to her in the will. It all boils down to, "I deserve this, so you make it happen.")
Based on her behavior in the game, I have a hard time believing that Leandra ever lifted a finger in her life. Personally, I suspect she was a spoiled rich girl who ran off with a dazzling mercenary apostate who promised to show her the world Aladdin-style, then when she got pregnant he did all the work of finding a home, settling it, and upkeeping it while she sat around like a princess. Then when her kids were old enough to start doing chores, her husband and kids did all the work around the house and farm while she continued to sit around like a princess. Then Malcolm died, but by then her kids were adolescents, so they continued to do all the work while she sat around like a princess. Then the Blight and flight to Gamlen's, and now the reason she's suddenly affronted by this lowly lifestyle that she should realistically be used to by now is because suddenly her kids are off in indentured servitude rather than being home doing chores, and Gamlen is just as much of a lazy housekeeper as her, and the real reason she's mad is because suddenly, for the first time in her life, she's expected to actually do work; whether a job to pay rent or chores to keep the house nice.
Because if she had been living this peasant lifestyle with lots of manual labor and housekeeping this whole time, this shouldn't be difficult for her.
It's almost as stupid of Hawke and Bethany not to do something about it themselves. But no, all we hear is "Isn't Gamlen a pig? Ugh. When can we get out of here?" as if providing basic maintenance for the place where they put their heads down at night after risking their necks shouldn't be a given.
Yep. Funny how they're willing to take advantage of his hospitality, but then endlessly complain about how it's beneath them.