It doesnt matter what the criteria is, but I notice that men dont bemoan handsome well built male characters at all, but women go into rage mode whenever a male says that female X isnt attractive.
That is because you have a great variety of men in the game who are not defined by being handsome, or at least not primarily by that. For example, talking mainly about design of squadmates ME2:
Men: Jacob (handsome), Zaeed (not handsome, old and cool), Grunt (alien, not what you would think as conventionally handsome), Legion (a robot who is not the humanish sexy counterpart EDI will be in ME3), Garrus (alien, although I think him and the turians are the most beautiful race in Milky Way, we can agree in human parameters, he is not handsome), Thane (alien but humanisly sexy), Mordin (alien and not handsome).
Women: Miranda (beautiful), Kasumi (beautiful), Jack (altough she is clearly beautiful, I can understand that her style can hide that for very conventional tastes), Samara/Morinth (alien but Asari, clearly beautiful), Tali (alien, but humanisly sexy).
Squadmates ME3:
Men: Garrus (alien), Vega (is he handsome? I would say he has an amazing body, but not handsome), Kaidan (handsome, clearly), Javik (alien)
Women: Liara (beautiful), Tali (sexy alien), EDI (robosexy), Ashley (stupid sexy Flanders...)
If you see, almost every single female squadmate is by default beautiful and/or sexy, even the aliens and robots. In the case of male squadmates, they are not handsome by default.
So I want all beautiful and sexy women to be erased from ME Andromeda? No, I love beautiful, sexy women, but I also like average looking woman, different aesthetics styles, not necessarily linked to my visual desires (i.e. alternative clothes of Jack) the same way I expect exactly the same with men NPC. I would hate all males in the game have to be good looking and sexy, that would get tiring very quickly and not very realistic.