Yeah, not having this debate. You're going to have to live with the reality that your views are considered nearing the level of objectionable as those of, say, bigots. That's just the mainstream view, and becoming more mainstream. That's not "pushing an agenda", as I say, anymore that trite morals like prejudice is bad.
I'm with Exile on this one. If there is an agenda being pushed, its to push for more acceptance of LGBT characters and such. I got no problem with that, my problem is with its execution.
I personally have no hate or dislike for LGBT characters, my issue is that I want them included without any of the drama that comes along with it. It shouldn't feel like its being pushed, it should just be there.
Sam- "I'm gay." Shep- "Cool." Good
Steve- "I'm gay." Shep- "Cool." Good
Dorian- "I'm gay and my daddy didn't like me and he tried to make me not gay *rabble rabble rabble*" Inq- "I'm supposed to help with this, aren't I? You should talk to your dad and eat mallomars together" Not feeling it
Its weird, I prefer its implementation in A Song of Ice and Fire, The Witcher, but in DA its just...what? Thats not even entirely true, in DAO I didn't find issue with Zevran or Leliana, their sexualities felt natural and were just factors of their characters.
But with DA2 we had a whole romanceable cast of "You can romance me if you want, no matter what you're like!" which felt fake as hell, then DA:I made romances feel way more believable(thank goodness) but still had Dorian's thing. Which is not to say Dorian's issues aren't believable, it just felt like it didn't need to be there and those issues were put there less for him and more for the sake of putting those issues in the player's face.
Maybe its hard for me to describe, I don't know if other's are on my wavelength here.