And you'd be wrong about that since the writer has specifically stated otherwise. At this point attempting to portray the loyalty quest as about nothing but homosexuality is straight-up delusion. It's bringing a pre-existing bias about this sort of content (which I know you have, since I've seen your posts in other threads whenever a social issue is discussed).
You also seem bizarrely oblivious to the fact that Dorian's larger stance on Tevinter culture is itself a form of political preaching, especially since it deals with actual freaking politics. You're uncomfortable with the game discussing homosexuality in any fashion, it seems, and that's an untenable viewpoint from which to argue.
So if the writer "specifically stated", I guess it must be true. Right?
Considering the way Gaider wrote and spoke about writing Dorian, it was a sort of a personal catharsis for him.
I find it hard to believe that Dorian's personal quest was about much else than Gaider's personal experiences and political views.
Of course I have a bias against "this sort of content", that's what I just wrote in this thread.
But my bias is against current-political-agenda-driven writing, not homosexuality. I don't need preaching in my entertainment. The end.
The fact that writing and lore tend to get compromised at times by agenda blinded writers is particularly unfortunate.
Believe it or not, I have nothing against gays, my attitude on the subject is live and let live.
Everyone is entitled to their own brand of fun, and since I'm not religious I really couldn't care less about it.
I do have everything against the new political movement that strives to force the politically-correct narrative on everyone else.
Gay characters in game should be like every other character, they should be about their personality and agenda rather than their sexuality.
Straight characters don't expect you to help them on personal quests regarding their sexuality, ever. Why should gay characters be different?
Want acceptance? Here it is: Be Like Everyone Else. Your sexual preference is different than most? Cool. So, what's for lunch today?
As for Tavinter "politics", I don't see the connection. This is a fantasy setting and any resemblance to real life is flimsy at best.
Good thing nobody here took that position, then.
You'd be surprised by how popular this opinion is.