Yes. They are destroyed by choosing refusal, via Liara's Beacon in the next cycle. And we don't have to submit to the Starbrat to do so.
You simply ignored my points.
Destroy is not submitting to the Star Brat.
Let us put to rest any idea that Destroy compromises with the Reapers in any way.
1. The demise of the Reapers does not in any way, shape or form compromise with the Kid.
2. The demise of the Intelligence does not in any way, shape or form compromise with the Kid.
3. The end of the Cycle of Extinction does not in any way, shape or form compromise with the Kid.
4. The freedom to self-determinate does not any way, shape or form compromise with the Kid.
5. The continued coexistence of synthetics and organics does not in any way, shape or form compromise with the Kid.
Destroy what you came to do. You already decided to Destroy the Reapers before the game even started. It's all Shepard talks about doing the entire game, shooting down TIM every time he mentions Control. Control or Synthesis (which Shepard shoots down in ME1) aren't even on the table prior to the last 7 minutes of the game. They're just thrown at you out of left field. Take the MEHEM. The Reapers are destroyed and there is no Star Brat at all. Are you saying you submit to the Star Brat in the MEHEM even though he does not exist in the MEHEM?
And in Refuse the next cycle - guess what? -
DESTROYS THE REAPERS WITH THE CRUCIBLE!!! Do you even listen to yourself? So I guess they submit to the Star Brat too, right? Your entire position literal spits in the face of reason and basic sense. You're being very illogical in your stance. I think you just didn't like EDI dying and are emotionally ranting because none of the endings are good.
If Shepard utilizes the Crucible to destroy the Reapers the collateral damage is as follows:
1. The Geth perish (maybe) - There is no hard evidence to support this claim, but people seem determined to believe it. So for the sake of argument let's assume for some magically reason they all die.
If Shepard chooses "freedom" (i.e. Refuse) the devastation is as follows:
1. The Geth perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
2. Humanity perishes or is enslaved in reaper form.
3. The Asari perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
4. The Turians perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
5. The Salarians perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
6. The Quarians perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
7. The Krogan perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
8. The Volus perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
9. The Elcor perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
10. The Hanar perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
11. The Drell perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
12. The Batarians perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
13. The Rachni perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
14. The Vorcha perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
15. The Raloi perish or are enslaved in reaper form.
16. Not to mention any other space-faring species who aren't mentioned in game.
So everyone - trillions of lives - must end brutally because Shepard is too weak to do what must be done. All must suffer so that one individual out of trilions can sit back and watch without a guilty conscious. How utterly selfish, cowardly and weak-minded. And oh so delusional. Choosing to refuse the Crucible makes Shepard an accomplice to the murder of everyone; a traitor to the galaxy.
"You're weak and you're selfish. Because of you, humanity will suffer."
Refuse is the ultimate betrayal. Unlike Control and Synthesis where Shepard is made susceptible to reaper influence and is deceived into fulfilling their will. Shepard is so broken that he knowingly condemns his allies to destruction and the Reapers have him convinced it is his idea. Shepard betrays his lover, his friends, his crew, humanity and every species he rallied together to confront the Reapers at Earth. All these beings came together, followed him into hell and he hung them all out to dry. Every sacrifice made, every life given to provide a future for their children - all of it - was rendered null and void by Shepard's act of betrayal. He effectively gathers all the galaxy's forces into one spot, tactlessly throws them against the Reapers in an unwinnable frontal assault and then hangs them out to dry. The Crucible is thus a trap.
Shepard says to the Illusive Man on Thessia, "You're indoctrinated! You're doing just what they want."
The Illusive Man replies, "I could say the same of you, wasting time on a war that can't be won."
That captures the very essence of Refuse.
It's equivalent to exactly what the Reapers wanted: For the Crucible to never have docked in the first place. In choosing Refuse the player confers that Shepard was undisputeably indoctrinated: Fact.
No offense. Honest. But you'd have to be a complete mental nutcase to genuinely believe Refuse is the best out of the 4 endings.