Can you prove that? I mean, blah blah blah indoctrination isn't an argument. I get that you believe this stuff, but why should we?
And how does Hackett have hopes for people he's never met?
I literally starting this line of conversation with you in the back on my mind, Alan. You never disappoint.
You can watch all 3 endings on YouTube. The proof is in the pudding. It doesn't really matter if you accept or deny the facts. The facts are the facts. The wording is objectively present tense. None of it is past tense. None of it has happened.
That being the case, can you prove that any of it actualizes? I mean, blah blah blah it gives me warm fuzzies isn't an argument. I get that you believe this stuff happens, but why should we? Especially considering the very wording proves it hasn't.
And why wouldn't Hackett hope for good things to come to the Normandy crew, the krogan, qurians, etc.? You think he's some kind of heartless a-hole?
Let me ask you a question. How can Samara reunite with her daughter if she's in some out in the middle of nowhere star cluster with a population of 1 (Falere herself) with no relay network? How does Samara ever see Thessia again in her lifetime? How does Wrex and Grunt get back to Tuchanka overnight (Grunt still has baby plates)? How long do you figure it will take to rebuild planets that have been reduced to rubble (no infrastructure), then research mass relay technology and replicate it then fly to each relay in the network one by one repairing them to make a path to any given world? The Quarian homeworld is literally on the other side of the galaxy from Earth. Even slow boating it isn't an option and even then that's centuries for even the relatively close worlds to earth. Ugh, I could go on and on about the horrendous outcome of Destroy. Warm fuzzies aside every single ending is a trainwreck.
But I have no problem with you believing everything is fine and dandy. That's why they are ignoring it all. They know it's irredeemable garbage. And that's why Andromeda gives the players the ability to embrace their fantasies in regard to ME3. Even if those fantasies aren't in line with the actual game lore or story. For me the MEHEM will have to do as the canon ending. See?