Perhaps if one ceased to act how they were treated, and more like how they wished they were treated, the forums would not be coming down in the first place.
Hopefully, my actions are not always predicated by how others behave. Prefer independent thought over racing towards the cliff like the other lemmings.
Okay but IF this line of thought was what Bioware had in mind, are you suggesting that if everyone calmly accepted the news and thanked Bioware for the information, that they would change their mind and keep the forums open? One, that's an incredibly immature and mean-spirited thing for a company to do to its consumers and essentially is treating us as "kids fighting over a cookie" as you put it.
Two, what benefit would Bioware have if they suddenly decided not to close the forums? It would make them look wishy washy or capricious, which is not a great image for a company.
Three, there are threads asking not to close the forums. This is not a topic designed to ask for them to stay open, this is a topic telling us the boards are closing, so it's filled with people's reactions to that.
Four, quite honestly the emotions and frustration being shared here are probably not "helping" the relationship between this community and Bioware at all, but at this point, many feel that it doesn't matter. Nothing anyone here says will change anything, so instead of just keeping their reactions bottled up, people are venting here while they still can. It's a completely natural reaction, so while it's not helpful, it's to be expected and isn't doing anything to actively harm anything. As many have pointed out, the community's reaction to the boards closing is realistically not going to have any impact on Bioware as a company. So what's the harm in venting here?