I wasn't here when Gaider used to come to the forum, but judging from a few of his posts, he didn't strike me as a very nice person. More than often he would use a condescending tone. As if the player was stupid and needed to have things explained to them because they weren't clever enough to interpret the lore and characters he had helped to write on their own.
That's him. I schooled him on his own character once, and he just made a snide remark and crept away.
Someone in this thread quoted him in response to the mod here giving excuses about devs not coming around. The quote read that the forums are used mainly for the fans to communicate with each other, rather than the devs. And now today here's Gaider shooting his thumbs off about how the forum is failing because people expect the devs to post replies to them. Then he admits he has no idea because he doesn't work at BioWare anymore.
Egh...