Assuming the OP is serious...
Violence against women (and men) is a horrible problem in real life, but this is a video
game where punching the reporter is a player choise. Also, her gender is pretty much
irrelevant and the games never make a point of it.
What I'd actually like to know is how many players attack al-Jilani during their canon
playthrough. I understand if you're not taking it too seriously. However, if you like to think
Shepard is a professional, how could he possibly physically attack a reporter on LIVE
BROADCAST? What, the most prominent human in the galaxy can't handle the press
and apparently has no self-control to speak of? Punching her is simply an utterly idiotic
thing for Shepard to do.
Then again, all that is part of the reason the scene is so hilarious. Even a person like
Donald Trump would never do that. So I think those moments are there to offer some
dark humor and should not be seen as condoning violence against women.