There are two things that really bug me about that Liara reunion:
1. She tells you she can't speek freely, as everything might be recorded on Illium. But she speaks quite open about her job as an Information Broker, that she threatens and kills people, that she hunts she Shadow Broker, about Feron, and later, that she killed her assistant. Not to mention the kiss with Shepard, so she didn't hide the personal relationship either.Now if that's not talking openly?
So there is either a huge secret she still hides and we know nothing about, or this is just a really lame excuse for them to not engage in a relationship dialogue.
2. The second question is somewhat related to the first. Why can't you ask Liara "What about us"/ "Do you still love me"/ I want to be together with you" or something like that. Now i understand that they wanted to keep the old LI out of ME 2 and the player somwhat in the dark about the status of that relationship. But that alone does not explain why they ignored the most natural question of all.
So, was it simply forgotten to incorporate that question or was ist just lazy writing as they simply didn't want to think about a response from Liara that made sense and still kept the players in the dark about the status of the relationship and so just left it out completely.
I hope, for both questions, it's the former, but from playing, i always get the feeling that it's the latter, and that is a real shame from a gaming company that takes pride in telling the best stories in the video gaming industrie. For what i know now, it feels like they just took a very bad shortcut because they were to lazy to really write a satisfying response that would be believable and fit with how they wanted their story to go on. Maybe futher dlc/ME 3 will prove me wrong, but that is how it feels now.
@Mox Ruuga: generally, it's your second squadmate that dies if your biotic falters. Not always, but most of the time. So pick the one you want to die as the last one, and it should work. It might also depend on the skills of the two. The one who dies secures the team, so if you choose Tali as second and Grunt as the first choice, it might still be Grunt simply because he has the better fighting abilities and it won't make sense for a tec like Tali to go front line and defend the team.