ERJAK2 wrote...
Naltair wrote...
But Mass effect does it best to try and present real people and real situations not fantasies. It's not a choose your own romantic adventure. It's a space action story with interesting characters who you interact with and deal with as they come. Some will like you, some will hate you, and some may not return the feelings you have for them.
That is the draw of the story.
See, I recently figured out why the romances are so important to the story as a whole. Whatever your opinions of me or the issue are this first paragraph should be at least skimmed over.
The romances are what make shepard a human being instead of a really big gun on legs. She has no real wants or desire, no real likes, or dislikes, beyond what applies directly to the mission. This is great from a role playing standpoint, as you can fill those in in your head, but too much time without some explicit feeling or need, not related to the mission, detach you from the character. I know from personal experience that it happens. The romances are the easiest way to remedy it without limiting the characters choice.
Now here's the part you might not like, limiting those romances to strictly(in this case by gender) eliminates that sense of "Shepard likes/dislikes whatever I think she/he does", because the only explicit way to express that is through romances you wouldn't choose, and the character you invisioned would never go along with. Can they please everyone? No, do I expect them to try and give as many options as possible? Yes, does it matter if it explicitly fits the companion character? Not if it's written well.
The romances humanize Shepard.
Then Bioware should have written a great squadmate in who swung both ways (or was totally homosexual). I agree totally.
I absoutely, positively,
DO NOT OPPOSE same-sex relationships, in real life, virtually,
WHEREVER. But owing to whatever reason (be it fear of media outcry, EA's nervousness, whatever), the current characters have been written to be straight, and that's how they are. No amount of "They should have been" or "They were meant to be" changes the fact that, at the end of the day, these characters seem entirely heterosexual. Does that seem like a shaft to homosexual fans? Sure, I can see why, it's totally a forbidden fruit thing -- just like with my analogy about my friend, if I found her totally ****ing hot and wanted to bang her, I could lust after it all I wanted, but nothing will change the fact that, as of this moment, she is most assuredly gay. And I'm fine with that.
I would not be opposed to something being written in ME3 where any of the given current squaddies come to Femshep and start talking romance, but that is in another two years real-life, and the characters could have in-game time to realize that gender is no barrier to love -- IF THEY ARE WRITTEN TO WANT IT, NOT IF SHEPARD WANTS IT. As it is... this is now.