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Femsheps? Do you care about Tali like i do?........anyone?


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Naltair wrote...
We are playing the same game, where characters have emotions, motivations, and their own goals.  You can totally screw up Tali's loyalty mission by telling the truth, by your logic you should be able to tell the truth and still be happy times with her.


Interesting point, however i am like a South Park Manatee...Either everyone is romanceable, or No one is :D

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Novacain999 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

ERJAK2 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

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I'm going to ignore the logical points you made and instead try to destroy your credibility with accusations of prejudice


Fixed.

Good game, everybody, good game.


Whether your points have logic or not is utterly inconsequential, this thread got your attention because you have a fundamental issue with Tali being a female romance character. That's fine. However, your vitriol over  our desire to see her as a female LI CANNOT rationally be explained by a dislike of character changes. Either you're prejudiced or you're a little crazy.


If you can point out a thread begging for a Jack f/f, or a Thane m/m -- and more specifically, threads that actually go so far as to suggest DLC to change the game to add such relations -- I will gladly post there, as well.


You state this and don't even seem to realize that there is a reason why this thread specifically about Tali exists, and is at 23 pages, but not for Jack or Thane? It's because there are obviously a lot of people that thought there was chemistry between a female Shepard, much more so then Thane and a Male Shep, or Jack and a femshep.

And seriously, god forbid fans throw out ideas of things they'd like to see in the game. If they made the DLC (which has a 99% odds of not happening), don't buy it. Jeez.


A thread blown far out of proportion by myself and others trying repeatedly to reason with the OP and supporters and constantly returning to the same circular logic.

There hasn't been much of substance for the past dozen pages, at least. Just the same things said over and over.

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Naltair wrote...

But Mass effect does it best to try and present real people and real situations not fantasies. It's not a choose your own romantic adventure. It's a space action story with interesting characters who you interact with and deal with as they come. Some will like you, some will hate you, and some may not return the feelings you have for them.

That is the draw of the story.


See, I recently figured out why the romances are so important to the story as a whole. Whatever your opinions of me or the issue are this first paragraph should be at least skimmed over.

The romances are what make shepard a human being instead of a really big gun on legs. She has no real wants or desire, no real likes, or dislikes, beyond what applies directly to the mission. This is great from a role playing standpoint, as you can fill those in in your head, but too much time without some explicit feeling or need, not related to the mission, detach you from the character. I know from personal experience that it happens. The romances are the easiest way to remedy it without limiting the characters choice.

Now here's the part you might not like, limiting those romances to strictly(in this case by gender) eliminates that sense of "Shepard likes/dislikes whatever I think she/he does", because the only explicit way to express that is through romances you wouldn't choose, and the character you invisioned would never go along with. Can they please everyone? No, do I expect them to try and give as many options as possible? Yes, does it matter if it explicitly fits the companion character? Not if it's written well. 

The romances humanize Shepard.

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AngryTigerP wrote...

Novacain999 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

ERJAK2 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

ERJAK2 wrote...

I'm going to ignore the logical points you made and instead try to destroy your credibility with accusations of prejudice


Fixed.

Good game, everybody, good game.


Whether your points have logic or not is utterly inconsequential, this thread got your attention because you have a fundamental issue with Tali being a female romance character. That's fine. However, your vitriol over  our desire to see her as a female LI CANNOT rationally be explained by a dislike of character changes. Either you're prejudiced or you're a little crazy.


If you can point out a thread begging for a Jack f/f, or a Thane m/m -- and more specifically, threads that actually go so far as to suggest DLC to change the game to add such relations -- I will gladly post there, as well.


You state this and don't even seem to realize that there is a reason why this thread specifically about Tali exists, and is at 23 pages, but not for Jack or Thane? It's because there are obviously a lot of people that thought there was chemistry between a female Shepard, much more so then Thane and a Male Shep, or Jack and a femshep.

And seriously, god forbid fans throw out ideas of things they'd like to see in the game. If they made the DLC (which has a 99% odds of not happening), don't buy it. Jeez.


A thread blown far out of proportion by myself and others trying repeatedly to reason with the OP and supporters and constantly returning to the same circular logic.

There hasn't been much of substance for the past dozen pages, at least. Just the same things said over and over.

Doesn't that include those huge rants of yours?

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I agree they give Shepard a humanizing factor and they form an important facet for him/her. But the idea that you can project your wants and desires upon another character and if they don't reciprocate those said desires and wants is wrong is baffling to me. It says to me that the character has their own inclination and is not some fantasy sex bot that bends to his/her every desire and whim.



It's one thing to humanize it's another to say that every character should treat every gender the same when it comes to romance when that isn;t even remotely realistic.

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Seriously anyone that thinks that the hug during Tali's loyalty mission was romantic really has a keen lack of understanding of what human/sentient compassion and comfort really is.

It is a moving moment of comfort for another sentient being going through probably one of the most traumatic moments of their young life.

Modifié par Naltair, 04 février 2010 - 05:55 .


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ERJAK2 wrote...

Naltair wrote...

But Mass effect does it best to try and present real people and real situations not fantasies. It's not a choose your own romantic adventure. It's a space action story with interesting characters who you interact with and deal with as they come. Some will like you, some will hate you, and some may not return the feelings you have for them.

That is the draw of the story.


See, I recently figured out why the romances are so important to the story as a whole. Whatever your opinions of me or the issue are this first paragraph should be at least skimmed over.

The romances are what make shepard a human being instead of a really big gun on legs. She has no real wants or desire, no real likes, or dislikes, beyond what applies directly to the mission. This is great from a role playing standpoint, as you can fill those in in your head, but too much time without some explicit feeling or need, not related to the mission, detach you from the character. I know from personal experience that it happens. The romances are the easiest way to remedy it without limiting the characters choice.

Now here's the part you might not like, limiting those romances to strictly(in this case by gender) eliminates that sense of "Shepard likes/dislikes whatever I think she/he does", because the only explicit way to express that is through romances you wouldn't choose, and the character you invisioned would never go along with. Can they please everyone? No, do I expect them to try and give as many options as possible? Yes, does it matter if it explicitly fits the companion character? Not if it's written well. 

The romances humanize Shepard.


Then Bioware should have written a great squadmate in who swung both ways (or was totally homosexual). I agree totally.

I absoutely, positively, DO NOT OPPOSE same-sex relationships, in real life, virtually, WHEREVER. But owing to whatever reason (be it fear of media outcry, EA's nervousness, whatever), the current characters have been written to be straight, and that's how they are. No amount of "They should have been" or "They were meant to be" changes the fact that, at the end of the day, these characters seem entirely heterosexual. Does that seem like a shaft to homosexual fans? Sure, I can see why, it's totally a forbidden fruit thing -- just like with my analogy about my friend, if I found her totally ****ing hot and wanted to bang her, I could lust after it all I wanted, but nothing will change the fact that, as of this moment, she is most assuredly gay. And I'm fine with that.

I would not be opposed to something being written in ME3 where any of the given current squaddies come to Femshep and start talking romance, but that is in another two years real-life, and the characters could have in-game time to realize that gender is no barrier to love -- IF THEY ARE WRITTEN TO WANT IT, NOT IF SHEPARD WANTS IT. As it is... this is now.

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Each Shepard universe is unique hence the option should be there, should they change it? who knows, who cares.

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KateKane wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

Novacain999 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

ERJAK2 wrote...

AngryTigerP wrote...

ERJAK2 wrote...

I'm going to ignore the logical points you made and instead try to destroy your credibility with accusations of prejudice


Fixed.

Good game, everybody, good game.


Whether your points have logic or not is utterly inconsequential, this thread got your attention because you have a fundamental issue with Tali being a female romance character. That's fine. However, your vitriol over  our desire to see her as a female LI CANNOT rationally be explained by a dislike of character changes. Either you're prejudiced or you're a little crazy.


If you can point out a thread begging for a Jack f/f, or a Thane m/m -- and more specifically, threads that actually go so far as to suggest DLC to change the game to add such relations -- I will gladly post there, as well.


You state this and don't even seem to realize that there is a reason why this thread specifically about Tali exists, and is at 23 pages, but not for Jack or Thane? It's because there are obviously a lot of people that thought there was chemistry between a female Shepard, much more so then Thane and a Male Shep, or Jack and a femshep.

And seriously, god forbid fans throw out ideas of things they'd like to see in the game. If they made the DLC (which has a 99% odds of not happening), don't buy it. Jeez.


A thread blown far out of proportion by myself and others trying repeatedly to reason with the OP and supporters and constantly returning to the same circular logic.

There hasn't been much of substance for the past dozen pages, at least. Just the same things said over and over.

Doesn't that include those huge rants of yours?


No, because I'll bring up new points and facts to support my side of this debate. Everyone opposed to me is just like "lulz you're homophobic" and ignores me, goes another page and says something else stupid or inane which I address. I tend to avoid supposition without evidence... and if that means I have to say more than "TALI SHOULD BE ROMANCEABLE FOR FEMSHEP BECAUSE I LOVE HER" in a post, well, so be it. I'm not going to dumb myself down; I'll just continue to stack up the counterargumentation until I receive proper rebuttal.

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Just make a male shepard if you want Tali that much. >.>

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The dialogue would be the same for the female shepard. Pretty much.

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wulf3n wrote...

Each Shepard universe is unique hence the option should be there, should they change it? who knows, who cares.

That is your interpretation to be sure and I agree each story is different but the characters are the same, your Ashley is the same as my Ashley except she might be dead or a love interest.  Your Udina is still a jerk like my Udina.  The list goes on and on, the only change is your Shepard and the choices you make.

There is no alternate universe Ash that wants a female Shepard, or alternate universe Thane who wants to be with my male Shepard.  That isn't the story as presented.

You can see whatever you want to see but at the end of the day this is how it is.

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wulf3n wrote...

Each Shepard universe is unique hence the option should be there, should they change it? who knows, who cares.


Little truth, big lie. Not quite statements, but it follows the formula.

Yes, the universe is unique, that is correct; but that doesn't mean characters should change based on SHEPARD. This is SHEPARD'S story, and you choose how Shepard reacts to the world, not how the world reacts to Shepard.

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AngryTigerP wrote...

No, because I'll bring up new points and facts to support my side of this debate. Everyone opposed to me is just like "lulz you're homophobic" and ignores me, goes another page and says something else stupid or inane which I address. I tend to avoid supposition without evidence... and if that means I have to say more than "TALI SHOULD BE ROMANCEABLE FOR FEMSHEP BECAUSE I LOVE HER" in a post, well, so be it. I'm not going to dumb myself down; I'll just continue to stack up the counterargumentation until I receive proper rebuttal.

I agree with your statements.  I try to add more than just because I want her to be or because in my secret fan fiction we are, or because she should be.

All of that is supposition and my opinion.  I try to stick to the facts as best as I can.

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but does they're sexual orientation change who they are?

or just how you percieve them?

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I personally want to be able to try:crying: with any NPC, I don't mind actual rejections. Jack and Mordin would be interesting LIs for  FemShep. The difference between them ans Tali is they say "Your interest in me is flattering, but no thanks.", with Tali it's rather the other way round.

Naltair wrote...

Seriously anyone that thinks that the hug during Tali's loyalty mission was romantic really has a keen lack of understanding of what human/sentient compassion and comfort really is.

It is a moving moment of comfort for another sentient being going through probably one of the most traumatic moments of their young life.

The ambiguity starts in ME1. I personally didn't think the comforting hug was of sexual nature. Still too many signs she might have been.:whistle:

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wulf3n wrote...

but does they're sexual orientation change who they are?
or just how you percieve them?


Red herring.

Naltair's and my argument isn't about how they are oriented, it is about modifying orientation because you decided you'd rather be gay this round.

RPG this may be, that still doesn't mean we should stop people getting pissed about being decked in the jaw, Quarians reacting negatively to a live Geth on their ship, or yes, characters changing orientation at will like those African frogs that change gender as neccessary.

Modifié par AngryTigerP, 04 février 2010 - 06:05 .


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wulf3n wrote...

but does they're sexual orientation change who they are?
or just how you percieve them?

How we see them is important to who the character is.  If you didn't see Tali as desirable you would not perceive her as such.  Perception is one of the only ways we have to distinguish people.  They may not even be correct perceptions but it still matters in how you compose your idea of a character. 

For example if I see someone is sloppily dressed and not prepared for work, then I perceive them as lazy.  The truth may that person was up all night working on a project and just finished and wanted to be here to show it off, but I don;t know that I just have my perception to go off of.  I am wrong, but again that is my perception of their character.

In short how we perceive people has a large impact on how we treat people.

That was off topic but to answer your question, this is a simple question that has no simple answer or resolution.

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AngryTigerP wrote...
No, because I'll bring up new points and facts to support my side of this debate. Everyone opposed to me is just like "lulz you're homophobic" and ignores me, goes another page and says something else stupid or inane which I address. I tend to avoid supposition without evidence... and if that means I have to say more than "TALI SHOULD BE ROMANCEABLE FOR FEMSHEP BECAUSE I LOVE HER" in a post, well, so be it. I'm not going to dumb myself down; I'll just continue to stack up the counterargumentation until I receive proper rebuttal.

I think HAGA NAGA may have left you a bit jaded. Most people on the pro-FemShep/Talimance side have contributed more than that to the argument.

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AngryTigerP wrote...

wulf3n wrote...

but does they're sexual orientation change who they are?
or just how you percieve them?


Red herring.

Naltair's and my argument isn't about how they are oriented, it is about modifying orientation because you decided you'd rather be gay this round.

RPG this may be, that still doesn't mean we should stop people getting pissed about being decked in the jaw, Quarians reacting negatively to a live Geth on their ship, or yes, characters changing orientation at will like those African frogs that change gender as neccessary.


but the change won't affect your game. unless you decide to romance Tali with a femshep. Hell bioware could have already done it and you wouldnt notice.

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Psychology class.

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rage-monk wrote...
The ambiguity starts in ME1. I personally didn't think the comforting hug was of sexual nature. Still too many signs she might have been.:whistle:

Perhaps but people are pointing to that moment as if it was the moment when the stars align and she magically wants to be with you.  It isn't, the attraction is there before because Kelly tells you as much.  

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Do you guys seriously want to spend the next twenty pages arguing the same thing instead of doing something semi-productive?

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wulf3n wrote...
but the change won't affect your game. unless you decide to romance Tali with a femshep. Hell bioware could have already done it and you wouldnt notice.

True but if that were the case there would be no post about this subject or other posts similar to this one, or other posts that will come along in the interim before ME3 comes out.  It's not a matter of affecting me you are looking at this the wrong way, it affects the overall story and the design of future LIs going forward.  By your stance every character should be modified by the player to suit their whims and desires.

That isn't good story telling.

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Naltair wrote...
Perhaps but people are pointing to that moment as if it was the moment when the stars align and she magically wants to be with you.  It isn't, the attraction is there before because Kelly tells you as much.  


But everything Tali does is the same, her dialogue her animation etc. the only difference is kelly? so maybe kelly is just xenophobic and doesn't want you with tali.