Upsettingshorts wrote...
It's more that in Subject Zero's case (using that instead of her name due to my bringing up Jack in Titanic) that the tats and baldness are a reflection of her personality, and that changing them would bring the integrity of her character into question for aesthetic reasons.
Such is my view of Thane. His mortality informs on his personality, and the romance with FemShep contributes to that changing - but it still informs on it. It certainly isn't all there is to him, and I'm not claiming that, but it is a big part of what makes his LI stand out among others. So in that sense the notion of changing that about him in order to either alter his personality - either making him less aware of how tragic the whole situation is or simply to hang on to him longer - seems to at least be a similar compromise of character, if not on precisely the same level.
I don't actually disagree with you--but I suppose I feel his mortality is less fundamental to his character than you do, perhaps? To me, his romance more or less focuses on that fact that he
felt dead, and Shepard woke him up. The great tragedy, of course, is that he's going to die in a few months time. And I do understand why some people woudn't want him cured, because it adds such a unique and characteristic element to his romance.
At the same time, I think it ought to come at a price, and a pretty heavy one. I feel, personally, that taking him out of the battle is a fair enough compromise--the most difficult decisions in games, to me, are ones that affect your ability as a player. Moral ones can be hard, but the beauty of roleplaying makes it easier. If who is on your team is relevant to the mission, you may even cripple yourself in some way without knowing it.
I think that curing him is also a fantastic way to see a relevant change in his personality, the way the other romances can't exactly have. Many of the romancable characters change slowly over the course of the game, but it would be refreshing to see how Thane deals with being both cured and unable to protect the woman he loves. I think, more than anything, there is storytelling value there.