I think male Shep's voice acting is awful. Jennifer Hale is a WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY better Shep. I tell my hubby that all the time.

(I'm tickled every time I think about this because Jennifer Hale also voiced Bastila and I could not stand Bastila when I played KotOR. Now I fangirl over Jennifer Hale's VA for Shep. lol)
I also like Tali, quite a bit. I enjoyed having her in my team again for ME2. She feels little sister-ish to me as well. While I certainly love the romances, I also like for my PC to have friends in game. I absolutely loved Ash in ME1, and she and my Shep were very, very tight. (And I agree that we need a nifty term like "bromance" for the relationship between females.) It was very difficult for me to sacrifice her on Virmire because of this. Overall, I liked Miranda more than I thought I would, but I didn't get the same sense of warm friendship with her that I did with Tali and Ash. Of course, I also found Miranda a bit too indoctrinated by Cerberus, but I digress...
I enjoyed the Jacob bromance. Once I got to the "spilling drinks on the Citadel" talk, I actually would go back into the Armory periodically just so he and my Shep could do the little handshake thing and I could hear him say that. So, yeah, being able to befriend the romantic interests in whom I have no romantic interest is nice.
Nhani, I applaud your fortitude. I've been around this thread for some time now, but I can't usually keep up with it. I tend to drop in every so often and type up some of my thoughts.
Michelle7, I was the one who talked about writing for Kaidan's perspective.

That's a new thing for me. My only other fanfic is the KotOR one, but that one is entirely from my PC's POV. I just felt really compelled to explore Kaidan's thoughts, and I enjoyed it so much that I am now inspired to try it again. I personally see Kaidan as a very deep thinker and as someone who is self-reflective, and those are both very sexy traits to me.
Oh, and I would like some sexy time in ME3 as well. I would also like the little hugs, cheek stroking, kisses, etc. I want it all! Do you hear that, devs? I want it all!!!
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