fortunesque wrote...
crimsonrhodelia wrote...
Isaantia wrote...

Ahh, so hot! Kaidan's the most gorgeous pixelated man evarrr. I love the dark-haired, dark-eyed mens and he is no exception.
What do people imagine his personal history to be like? Is he an only child? Siblings? What's his relationship with his family members? His dad retired to Vancouver, IIRC, is that where the Alenkos are from originally?
I could see him being an older child and maybe his parents had an 'oops' child after retirement. One thing I sense is that he's got a strained relationship with his family, due to BAAT and his biotics.
I can see him as an oldest child or only child. Although onlies may get bad press (spoiled, selfish etc.) it's not necessarily the case. A lot of them are pretty sensitive kids
and they often have aspects of being both the oldest and the youngest. One thing for sure is that when an only gains their parents' attention for something, especially a screw up, they can
really get focused on and there's no getting away from it !

It can be pretty tough when parents have high expectations and I get the sense that Kaidan's do/did. Every time the kid doesn't succeed in the way the parents expect it becomes a big burden....for the kid. 'k....nuf psychoanalysis from me...
Kaidan does say in your first convo that his father was proud of him -- eventually -- which gives me the sense that it was important to him. I also take out of this convo that he's glad of it; kind of a vibe that his relationship with his parents has been repaired. Still, given his age and career, it probably isn't like he visits that much. Also given his conversational caution, I suspect he's not exactly calling home every Saturday nite to update his parental units on his activities!