Sigilius wrote...
Their attempts to tempt you off the path of faithfulness were sloppy, I can't deny that. They came off more as blunt statements of, "Your LI has moved on. Get a new one if you ever want to experience love again," rather than, "This is a test of your loyalty. Will you stay faithful?" Therefore, most of the cheaters are really players who simply felt hurt by their old LIs, and decided to move on themselves. Of course, Bioware really means that they're cheaters, and is high-fiving each other at their ability to corrupt players when really the player felt they had no alternative. That's not good writing, Bioware, that's just strong-arming the player into a course of action that you want! If you wanted to really test us, give us something that says, "My LI still loves me, but we can't be together for a while. Should I stay faithful?" rather than, "My LI is probably never coming back. Too bad. Might as well move on too." It's obvious to the player that the LI has moved on, but the writers have already scripted it as cheating, in their desperate attempt to convince players to cheat.
Ultimately, rather than convince players to become unfaithful, they trick them into it. That won't fly with me, Bioware, and I'm sure it won't fly with the others.
(Allow me to footnote this by saying that my Shepard remained faithful to Liara.)
Very well said, and I agree: it's quite clumsy.
It's much more interesting if you are actually cheating - if your love interest was open to a reconciliation then the choice is much harder and more interesting.
As it stands now, can they really get mad at you? You were dead, and they didn't indicate they wanted to continue your relationship.
Ashley: "You left me for the genetically engineered perfect woman?!"
Shep: "Last time we talked, you told me I wasn't the man you loved. Plus she's willing to die for me."
I mean, these are all pretty reasonable characters, so they can't _really_ be surprised you moved on afterhow they treat you (Ash/Kaidan, I mean). Liara would have the most reason to be upset (what with the bringing you back to life and all), but the fact that you can't bring up your relationship still means you are on unsure ground. She's expecting Shepard to hate her too, so I don't think she'd be surprised at all to see someone else on Shepard's arm after ME2. She'd probably think she doesn't deserve Shep because she gave the body to Cerberus, anyway.
I do really want to see an epic Jack vs Ashley fight over Shepard in ME3 though. They both strike me as the jealous type, and if Jack is the love interest in ME2, she seems like she'd be the insane homicidally jealous type. Someone's coming to take the only person she's ever been close to away from her? You are so totally dead, biotically ripped into a billion tiny pieces.