Ok, I think it's time for me to have another little rant about Jack - one all brought on by the poll we're mulling over at the moment. I'm frankly unsurprised that Jack is proving (for now at least) most popular with girl-gamers. I don't want to get into tarring-and-feathering other characters in the game, but when compared to Miranda, Tali and to a lesser degree Kelly, Jack is a good all-round female character; she covers almost every base (speaking from a feminine perspective).
Don't get me wrong; all the female characters represent their sex in their own ways. Miranda, while quite flawlessly beautiful, sees only her flaws; she has a sincerity in her self-doubt that I think all women will have known at one point or another. She is also driven; she strives to be the best at what she does, though takes her failures to heart, turning them into an emotional ball-and-chain. Miranda's biggest flaw though (insofar as the presentation of the character) is that her romance is too lightweight and easy-breezy. It's as though she forgets her own doubts and trust issues as soon as she enters the orange, Rick-James-esque aura of Shepard. For her to have retained some of her fear of failure in something like a relationship would given her another dimension, as she would pull Shepard in then push him away out of doubt, resulting in a will-they-won't-they situation that just works whenever it's presented in contemporary media (face it, it's the only reason
The X Files went on as long as it ever did).
Tali is I think made in a way that will appeal most to male gamers. While a girl will see her as spunky, smart, funny and capable, Tali has a slightly waifish quality (one alluded to with her weak immune system and one depicted visually in that she seems the one character unafraid of her emotions - she displays her feelings around Shepard without pretence or desire to hide from him a potential exploitable weakness). She implicitly trusts Shepard with her heart, and while never being a damsel in distress, she seems to seek Shepard to help her stand up to fears and sorrows. As a Male-Shep, we only encourage Miranda to open herself up to trust, we badger Jack into surrendering to her cloistered feelings, but Tali, we just comfort. It's like autopilot hugging her when her dead father is discovered - the game tries to steer us into it, damnit! The game wants us to love Tali, though I think loving her as a sister is more approachable for the female audience than finding a flutter of romantic interest. For men... well, some guys like being the White Knight, others just like the other facets of her personality, but I don't think I'm too far wrong when a I surmise that a lot of guys liked her because she made them feel needed.
Kelly is... fanservice. Ok, that is a completely mean and judgemental thing to say, but considering her much-vaunted psychological advice is pithy at best, and other than that all she seems to do is tell you about messages, the romance seems tacked-on. There's nothing to fall for other than the fact she'll feed the damn fish for you and hand out the lapdances. There's nothing there to develop a romantic interest in! Guys will like the dancing (and no doubt some of the girls will too) but other than that Kelly brings no emotion to the table. She only seems vulnerable in the Collector base, and other than that she expresses little in the way of other emotions. It's no real surprise then that she doesn't even count as a romance, but I felt I should include her all the same.
Then we come to Jack... to me at least, Jack really does express the gamut of female emotional expression. To begin with, we're slightly held at bay by her attitude; she's so tough she doesn't need anyone, and **** you if you think otherwise. She doesn't want a lover, she doesn't want a friend, she's fearsomely independant; something many women want to be or are. It's aspirational in a somewhat twisted way. Then we find out about Jack the woman. Her past just makes you want to hug her; she's suffered some of the most awful things imaginable, yet she keeps up this wall of dispassionate aggression to hold Shepard(s) at bay, but we get an inkling that inside the strong woman is a weaker one - one we can identify with more. This kind of duality in a character is a great point of identification for a female gamer... women have to be both things sometimes, and it's a condition we can relate to.
Jack uses sex as tool; not as a weapon per-se, but almost like a test. She uses the most obvious thing at her disposal to test the water with this man (or this woman, as Bobby discovered once upon a time), and if he fails the test she cuts him off. Bam - no nonsense. Also the old equation of sex and love is thrown into a fully 20th century, post-feminism light - women no longer have to equate romance to intercourse anymore, even if society continues to try and feed it back in drip by drip. Jack is in that sense a free, modern woman in her actions; something equally aspirational (though perhaps in her case not in a fashion women should rush out to emulate willy-nilly).
The last layer comes off Jack when we find out why she doesn't want some dumb**** love affair. Her heart has been broken. Combine that with a past that seems to include sexual violence and simply being used to a degree you could almost call it emotional prostitution, Jack turns inside-out. Too red-raw to hold. And women feel that way sometimes; too sensitive to life whirling around them. Ok, don't get me wrong here guys, I know for a fact men can feel this way too, but I'm only looking at feminine identification here. Unlike Tali's need for a White Knight, Jack has spent her life saving herself. For someone to save her... well, trusting someone to do it is one huge leap of faith for her - a woman who has very little faith in anyone. And also for someone to want to save her for no good reason than Jack being Jack... what woman in a vulnerable moment will not want the exact same thing? Shepard holds her and the pain comes flooding out. Not all of it, but enough to take some of the pressure off the tank. Women are tough by nature, seriously ****ing tough, but not beyond breaking under the strain.
While I think the three female principles in ME2 are very nicely delineated for the audience, I think Jack offers the broadest spectrum of female emotional experience to the girl-gamer. While some may have more closeness to Miranda or Tali because they identify with the characters more, I think Jack has found a place with many female gamers simply because out of all of them, Jack is the one a 21st centurywoman can, in relation to the emotional aspects of femininity, find inside herself the most.
And I didn't even once resort to saying men are much more visually oriented than women!