BobbyTheI wrote...
Getting back into that discussion, I think a lot of people were still smarting from ARE YOU MOTHER***ERS READY FOR THE NEW S***?!?!" and worried that BioWare games were trying too hard to be badass and, as others have said, EXTREME. It seemed like she was trying way too hard to be the Dark Action Girl with an attitude, which turned a lot of folks off. Interesting in the end, it turned out she WAS trying too hard, but there was an in-character reason for it.
Yeah, I had this exact reaction. I just thought
oh, another walking talking bad-girl cliche. I had a little bet with myself she'd swing both ways too (which I was semi-right about at least) but Jack managed to haul victory out of the jaws of defeat for me. Ok, it was equally cliche for her to be hiding a lot of pain and tragedy inside to have to build this superb1tch (I can't believe it censors **** like that in here

) persona to hide inside, but it made her OTT badassery into something understandable. It made me want to pick this poor little girl up and dust off her knees and give her a hug. She grabbed me by the mommy-genes as opposed to the crotch and frankly no other potential love interest grabbed me
anywhere (ok, I'll give, Tali did
once I initiated a romance, because she was sweeter than a bag of cotton candy), not even in
ME1. Jack won me over before there was any talk of clothes coming off, and thanks perhaps to Bioware seeing being bi was a bit too far into character stereotype she deflected all my initial cynical thoughts. The only failing left was the inability for a female Shepard to get some kind of big sis / lil' sis relationship out of it (but then again, Bioware failed -
yes, the F-word - where making friends with anyone was concerned
except Jacob: the frankly dullest character in the game... WTF as they say).
And now, because you all made me get the PMS face out...

Azint wrote...
I remember my first post on this thread. It went something along the lines of "Hi guys! I really liked Jack and- eep big discussion, sorry for interrupting."
Anyways, it's become the general rule of that thread that we discuss whatever we want and the amount of usuals posting really overwhelm people who don't frequent it. But you guys are not as alone as you think you are, many people do like Jack, but each thread has its own community and it does feel awkward for many to post in threads they do not frequent. I've posted here several times, added my own contributions to the topic and I do see why it's just as intimidating here as it is on the Tali thread. You guys have a small but very strong community, the few that are here are all familiar and while you are welcoming, there is an added second-party factor for new people.
And in terms of reputation on the boards, you guys have a rep for being very judgemental about everyone else and you view yourselves as better. Of course that is not true for all of you but that is the impression others are getting, and it is wrong to stereotype like that, for any reason and for any group. You can't blame us for being defensive either when people state that we are mindlessly posting, there have been lots of big discussions and we do meander off-topic, but of course a 5000+ page thread will not always be on-topic, and the sheer size accentuates that fact.
I'm not here to advocate the Tali thread, I'm here because I think we all really should try to bond. It looks bad for any fandom when the fans are arguing over subjective issues like who is a better or more likeable character, and I'm not saying that you guys do. We really should try to do more than just get along, if we all the fans just band together, I think we all will be much better off for it.
Az has dropped by here a lot, and has always had plenty of interesting and supportive things to add to debate here. You all know I perfer to be the moderate denmommy here, so I'm willing to buy into the idea that maybe we don't always come off as the friendliest bunch (and just to fit the mold, I'm listening to
KiTTiE while I clatter this out and getting in touch with my inner riot-grrrl). I've drifted past the Tali threat to know that enough pages have debate and discussion, but in 5,000 + pages, in a thread in it's third iteration? I think it's fair to say that a good slice of it is people signing in and out with a cheery
Keelah Se'lai and saying any old crap to reach the next thousand posts. There are so many souls in there though that it's impossible for that not to be the case, because for every five debators, there are a couple of dozen master-debators (sic) and at least one loudmouthed militant loon with no sense of humour (note Bobby's reception and the reason so many of us dared him to do it - because we
knew it would happen and frankly it would be hillarious - and it was only a couple of people that went glasstooth on him, because the majority of Tali-fans either did or would see the humour in it all). There's a ****-sight less of us in here, so the statistical density (thank you, Frank Zappa) of discussion over nonsense is bound to be greater than elsewhere.
It's not because we are teh supeeriar fanz.We're smart enough in here to know that we can all get along. Sure, we can be spiky at times, but look at the woman who brought us in here; goes off like a bomb at some things. For us to have got past that, a bit of that has to be in us or people we've known or know. Look at my
Virginity motivational - it's mean and shooting harpoons directly at a stereotypical slice of the fanbase. I made it for a giggle though. Sure, I get sick of Jack getting labelled, so a bit of the acid got in there, but it's not something I made to Nagasaki folk with (I've actually made a non-atomic version for use in the
Motivationals thread next time someone wails on Jack, but I have a Miranda one too, just to be sure I'm equally ****y

). I don't think we're here to claim moral superiority over anyone else because of who we like.
My dad's bigger than your dad arguments aren't our style. And if folk come looking for a fight, sure, we'll give 'em one. But only when they do. It's like Mordin says, we've just got to read the pamphlet and find a position that is mutually enjoyable. We can do that, 'cause we're certainly not elitists in here.
Though if Quarians have a penis-bone (like a lot of mammals do), Shepard is really going to have to work at it with Tali.
Really work at it.
Hey, my pops always used to say go out on a joke!
Peace(nik) out, guys and gals.