Pacifien wrote...
Well, fans of other romances would probably debate that their romance is lacking in comparison to Jack's. When it comes to the romances, I always whip out the ol' "you get out of the relationship what you, the player, are willing to put into it." I wouldn't be able to comprehend it, but I'm sure there are those out there who feel Jack's romance is poorly developed in comparison to their own preferences.
No doubt. She was, naturally, coloured by my particular preference when she asked the question.
Anyway, is your wife saying that if you play a female Shepard, instead of a female Jack you get a male Jack instead? 'Cause I'm not sure Jack's personality and experiences translate into people's expectations of a male.
That's what she was saying, yes. Personally, I see no reason, if handled well, there
couldn't be an equally compelling male version of Jack. Or a male counterpart as good.
Now if she's wondering why there isn't a counterpart, then you'd have to analyze what gives Jack's romance weight and how you can apply that to another romance without directly copying Jack's story. If you view Jack's story as one that starts in a dark place only for her to discover the light in the end, then you do have a parallel romance in Thane.
She thought that Jack's character had been the best developed, (she'd also sat through a long spate of YouTube encapsulations of the various romances), and her opinion was that Female Shepard's pretty much got screwed with the romance angle. When she said "a male version of Jack", she said it could have been taken either way - a male Jack just like Jack, or a "male Jack" as in a male character as good.
However, a lot of people find Thane's memories of his wife are a bit off-putting. And you can certainly fall into a romance with Thane easier than you could Jack.
My wife thought him "cerebral and interesting, but a serious downer." She thought Jacob's romance was meant for
comedic effect, and thought Garrus "charming". She thought the only other romance "worthy" of Shepard (male or female) was Samara - had we been allowed to pursue it.