yorkj86 wrote...
Is Jack's romance arc misogynistic? Is it saying that all a tough, independent girl really needs is a good guy, in order to soften her up, and see who she really is?
Does Shepard force Jack in to a relationship by continuing to pursue her, even though she tries repeatedly to keep him away? There's a difference between being persistent, and being creepy. Does Shepard come off as the former, or the latter?
I really react to this kind of questioning badly, despite the fact I can see and understand the logic behind it. For a start, we're only presented with a hetero-romance arc for Jack, so pissing and moaning about her love interest being male is as pointless as installing a condom machine in the Vatican - it's what we got; using it as a chisel to dissect the character is facile. Also, if you're so militant that a woman expressing sensitivity to a man is seen as a display of gender-oppression, or worse, as a sign of weakness on the part of the character... f*ck, you're pathetic. It's a romance - one based on a couple of pretty old tropes if you want to see them; you want to change things that have roots in stories thousands of years old, all the best building that time machine. If you're there for some kind of agenda, you ain't gonna find one in a video game; a medium made to appeal across very broad spectrums of age, race, gender, etc. And secondly, to think opening one's feelings to another (leaving gender out of this for a second) is a sign of weakness? That's just screwed up.
Oh noes! Love makes you weak! If that's the case, bring it on - I'm weak and I'm proud of it.
Basically, it's not that it takes a man and his magic penis to open up Jack - it's that it's Shepard that does it. He's a prototypical hero; he slays dragons, rescues princesses, unites kingdoms and if need be melts the hearts of warrior maidens. It's not because he has a c*ck, it's because he's the bloody hero! A penis is not required to be a hero - Shepard just has one by proxy in this case.
As for Shepard's pursuit of Jack, to be honest the guy has never come off as creepy to me. Shep ain't dumb. He looks at Jack, listens to her talk, and just grasps that while she's certainly tough, capable, independent and as lethal as all hell, the face she presents is just that; a mask to hide the Jack inside. He doesn't buy her spiny exterior; he looks past it and sees the woman inside it, someone forced by life to try to be as vicious as possible to beat nature at its own game, to hurt it before it hurts her. So knowing its artifice, he pokes at it until it cracks, until Jack falters and shows enough of herself for him to see who really is in there. And in coaxing her out of her shell, she sees he is a man that will not use her, will appreciate her for who she really is, and yes, will give her some comfort from the huge burden of hurt she carries around on her back. Also not being scared to stand up to her probably earns some brownie points too. It is a seduction of sorts, but at the same time it's something a lot deeper; he's showing Jack that he's willing to take a risk on her, and in turn she sees she doesn't need her mask around him. They're exploring one another's boundaries... I find it really sweet to be honest.