EffectedByTheMasses wrote...
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As for her baldness, personally I do value looks in a romance -I think it's easy to say most people do- and I just don't like it. I'm willing to overlook it though, since it doesn't irk me that much. But I just can't overlook her outfit for the life of me.
I don't have a problem with people who find these sort of things that turn them off a character or a romance. Little personality quirks do make or break relationship possibilities.
The following is in no way directed to EffectedByTheMasses, I just used his post as the jumping off point for a much broader rant. Probably influenced by the infamous Isabela discussions of the Dragon Age 2 boards. But I have to add the disclaimer, because I can imagine him reading the rest of this wondering "where the **** did that come from and why is it directed at me?!" It's not, I swear.

I don't like it when people then say those little details should have been changed to then make the character more acceptable. That idea if only BioWare did just a few things differently, it would have been enough to meet the person's standards. I just have a feeling that it's a disappointment the player has to learn to accept. Some relationships are close enough but no cigar. You either then learn to accept what turns you off in order to get into the meatier details of the relationship or you decide it's a deal-breaker and no relationship occurs.
Thing about the different characters and relationships is that they're running the gamut of the various types of relationships you can have in real life. Not every possible relationship that one can have in real life is going to be your cup of tea, so you simply don't have those types of relationships. Same with games, if the character isn't written in the manner that your comfortable with to pursue the romance path, you just don't do it. Or you learn to roleplay it as is the appeal of roleplaying games.
When you find yourself thinking "Jack is great, but if only they had done this with her, then I could have romanced her" then you're not really accepting the character as she's presented to you. It's the person who starts a relationship with a guy thinking she can change his horrible dressing habits after they start dating. Yeah, no one should go
into a relationship already thinking about ways to fix the other person to suit you better.