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Khavos wrote...

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I think you're taking that part out of context. He's not saying, being gay tarnishes everything, but because this game is SOLELY on a 1 person hero for an entire galaxy, that to give that option would, in some way, destroy that image, even if it meant that you just gave them an option to be gay.

In some way, I do understand the small gay community, but when you're talking about making a huge and epic story, some things wouldn't sit well with a much larger community. It's about making a character so iconic, and it's also about business.


Weird that so many straight guys, such as myself, don't think it'd "tarnish" anything.

Again, though, you're giving Bioware too much credit.  You took that "iconic character" bit and ran with it because it supports your positions.  It's a derivative space opera with cliche writing and an extraordinarily cliche character.  Quit acting like it's the second coming of Homer. 


So you're saying, putting words in my mouth, saying that I'm giving BioWare all the credit and that I don't want any gay features in the game? No you fool, if BioWare were to put gay content in ME series, I honestly wouldn't care. To ME? I just won't pick the gay option. Simple as that. I'm just saying in 'some' way I do understand BW, but also the gay community. If they put gay content in, that's cool, if not? Well, that's fine with 'me'. I'm not trying to trash anypme

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We need more srs in here.
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redshift has been owned. his arguments are done. he is defeated.



good job, everyone.

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JamesMoriarty123 wrote...

EDIT: You are certainly entitled to your opinion. I find male gay sex digusting and unnatural in itself, but so do most straight men. That being said I haven't attacked anyone. I'm not saying that being gay is an immoral thing, try and read the whole thread before you come here and call me names to vent.


I'm with you, bro. I find heterosexual sex disgusting, almost vomit-inducing, but for some weird reason whenever I say that people think I have a problem with straight people. I don't hate them, I just don't want to acknowledge that they exist. Nothing wrong with that opinion, right?

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paperbags90 wrote...

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The game should have a gay romance option just from a human decency standpoint.

Imagine being a young gay person already dealing with fear and intolerance in every part of your life... then you boot up Mass Effect (like we all do) for a little harmless escapism... only to find that the game (like so much of the rest of the world) considers you to be a deviant/ defective? This is clearly implied by the omission of same sex romance options.

Are you opponents so dense/ cruel/ incapable of empathy that you can't see this? It would have ZERO effect on your life but could provide EXTREMELY valuable validation to someone else. Grow up. Grow some compassion.


I don't really understand how playing a video game and finding out it doesn't have a gay romance option would make them feel worse about themselves? It's a game. If that's how they percieve it, then that's ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, so are the developers of the game we all enjoy playing. So I don't see why it's so horrible for them to not add it to this game. God forbid there's not one miniscule thing, everyone has to go bat ****.

But there is no need for this gay hate, or straight hate if there is even such a thing. It's a game, enjoy it. If you are so upset about the romantic part of the game, you truly are missing out on so much more of the game.


It's not just the game, almost all media shows heterosexuality as the norm. The correct thing to do.

The pure lack of homosexuality in mainstream media has a tendency to breed neurosis, you'd be surprised at just how much of your own personal self is constantly validated by media every single day. Now imagine if everything you watched on tv made it seem like everything you did was wrong.

Now this isn't Bioware's fault, it's just how society works and gradually it's changing. The problem is that somewhere along the line they decided not to have this in the game, I can't even begin to vouch for their motives so I won't. It's not something "wrong" on their part, it's simply sticking to an unjust status quo.

Considering how little would be changed and since it's a game based on choice though, the reasons for leaving it unspoken just can't compare to the reasons it should be added. Not for some vocal bunch of gay fans, but for society as a whole and as an attempt to move interactive media up a notch in the artistic scale.

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I left for an (extended) snack break...



I was hoping this would just die. o_O

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diskoh wrote...

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Many years of studies have consistently shown that men who find gay sex disgusting are usually gay themselves.

Straight men have no reaction either way to it.


Please show these studies.  Are they peer reviewed?  Are they done by a reputable psychoanalyst?  

I'd bet the farm you can't put your money where your mouth is.


The authors investigated the role of homosexual arousal in exclusively
heterosexual men who admitted negative affect toward homosexual
individuals. Participants consisted of a group of homophobic men (n =
35) and a group of nonhomophobic men (n = 29); they were assigned to
groups on the basis of their scores on the Index of Homophobia (W. W.
Hudson & W. A. Ricketts, 1980). The men were exposed to sexually
explicit erotic stimuli consisting of heterosexual, male homosexual,
and lesbian videotapes, and changes in penile circumference were
monitored. They also completed an Aggression Questionnaire (A. H. Buss
& M. Perry, 1992). Both groups exhibited increases in penile
circumference to the heterosexual and female homosexual videos. Only
the homophobic men showed an increase in penile erection to male
homosexual stimuli.


Degree of Tumescence:
   

Insignificant
Moderate
Definite


Homophobic men
20%
26%
54%


Non-homophobic men
66%
10%
24%

http://www.ncbi.nlm....st_uids=8772014


And of course "homophobic" men are discovered due to laws of nature and special detectors based on physics, not something arbitrarily.

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But like other people are saying too, if you don't like the series, don't play it. They won't add gay content in it, so don't buy the games if they don't. You're only supporting them and gaining nothing out of it. But if they decide to, well that's cool.



Just saying

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ReDSH1FT wrote...
When my friends and I hang out at a bar drinking beer, we usually are hitting on the girls nearby.  Pretty or not, beer goggles work wonders.

Your comment just keeps proving to me that you're a ****** pretending to be hetero in order to gain leverage and support for your cause.  Make it look like we're loons because you're a rational and understanding hetero.

You're exposed, go make a new avatar.

You've called pretty much every person that disagrees with you or doesn't share your pathetic hatred for gay people ******'s.

I'm sure you've earned a lot of peoples respect in these forums :huh:

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ReDSH1FT wrote...

Typical ****** comeback.  I've noticed when presented with an insurmountable amount of logic, you guys defer to the character attacks.  Answer the the question I just put there instead of beating around the bush, or are you incapable because that guy was full of BS?


You make nothing but attacks and don't respond to any sensible replies at all.
I still wish to know where I've bashed straight people?
I'm a straight woman myself.

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JamesMoriarty123 wrote...

EDIT: You are certainly entitled to your opinion. I find black people digusting and unnatural in itself, but so do most white men. That being said I haven't attacked anyone. I'm not saying that being blackis an immoral thing, try and read the whole thread before you come here and call me names to vent.


/\\\\ same thing.

Modifié par diskoh, 07 février 2010 - 07:19 .


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JamesMoriarty123 wrote...

PyroFreak301 wrote...



JamesMoriarty123 wrote...

...I find gay sex digusting and unnatural in itself, but so do most straight men. ...

So your knowledge of nature is innate? Homosexuality happens everywhere in the animal kingdom, it's pretty natural by most definitions.

And no, most straight guys dont find it disgusting. Does that mean we like to sit and watch it or have it forced upon us? Of course not. However disgust is not an emotion that comes to mind.


Most straight guys DO find man on man sex disguting. Fact. Go do a google search on it.


Well, appart from being false (remember: you are not the whole straight community), an important thing about including this OPTION would be that you could choose whehter you want or not to experience it. Does it really bother you that the option  exists on your CD? I so, you should think about it man...

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ReDSH1FT wrote...

When my friends and I hang out at a bar drinking beer, we usually are hitting on the girls nearby. 


Dude, at least try for something in the same league as believable. 

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Kordaris wrote...


And of course "homophobic" men are discovered due to laws of nature and special detectors based on physics, not something arbitrarily.


They were ASKED. Did you not read it?

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Mmmh i think i got a possible explanation about why Male Sheppard can't be gay.

Maybe Mark Vanderloo (the real face of Sheppard) didn't want to see a virtual representation of himself being "too friendly" with another guy.



And maybe it's the same for Yvonne Strahovski, that would explain why there's no possible lesbian interaction with her.



Yeah i know we can change his face, but still, the default character is HIS face.



Honestly i don't mind if there's possibility for M/M interactions, i don't care, i'm not doing them. :P

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Orogenic wrote...

If you think threats of violence against people for their orientation/ beliefs is "silly good fun" we'll just have to disagree. 

Why is it so odd that I sent those posts to my buddy to look at? At the very least it will provide interesting conversation over a couple of beers.  We spend hours talking about morals/ ethics/ philosophy... I have a hard time believing that is so uncommon that you find it odd.


Put words in others mouths much?  When did I ever say that threats of violence were "silly good fun?"

Never, what I did say is that Hate Speech is protected under US law (for the most part it is protected, there are instances of imminent incitement of violence and defamation makes it illegal, and when it makes the workplace a hostile environment).

That is why KKK, neo-****'s, and people like Fred Phelps are allowed to go about and make their public demonstrations of hate.

I didn't find it odd that you were going to discuss the posts, I found it odd that you were threatening to pursue legal action against these people.

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I'm just going to say that as someone whose dealt with **** from many people in the past (not for being gay) there's an inherent problem in something the OP said.

"I don't have a problem with gay people being open and gay in the world, I just don't want it in my favorite videogame."

Ahem.

"I don't have a problem with black people being free and open in the world, I just don't want them in my favorite videogame."

"I don't have a problem with Jews being free and open in the world, I just don't want them in my favorite videogame."

Whatever the group you refer to, its just as rude and homophobic to 'not want them' in your game. Besides, its not as if you're forced down this road. You may just as easily ignore the homosexual romances, were they to be present. If you were a straight male and a gay man hit on you, wouldn't you make it clear you aren't interested? Then, things could progress on the friendly level with said character in a completely normal manner.

P.S. lesbian thing- double standard, no justification for -not wanting- gay romances in the game.

Why will a lesbian romance or an approximation be in, while a male romance won't be? For reasons of the double standard. That's the reality, but the reality makes it no more acceptable, OR okay.

I also come from a position of understanding here. Okay Bioware, you don't want to push the envelope here. I can hardly blame you, its a dangerous topic. Just knowing its wrong and taking steps in the right direction in the future is enough for me.

P.S. don't shoehorn a character into homosexuality. It should be part of a character, not tacked on.

Modifié par The Demonologist, 07 février 2010 - 07:21 .


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Elder Drake wrote...

I found the link that will solve the OP's problems. CLICK


I already tried this....people blew right by it!


This link will answer all problems!

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The Demonologist wrote...

I'm just going to say that as someone whose dealt with **** from many people in the past (not for being gay) there's an inherent problem in something the OP said.

"I don't have a problem with gay people being open and gay in the world, I just don't want it in my favorite videogame."

Ahem.

"I don't have a problem with black people being free and open in the world, I just don't want them in my favorite videogame."

"I don't have a problem with Jews being free and open in the world, I just don't want them in my favorite videogame."

Whatever the group you refer to, its just as rude and homophobic to 'not want them' in your game. Besides, its not as if you're forced down this road. You may just as easily ignore the homosexual romances, were they to be present. If you were a straight male and a gay man hit on you, wouldn't you make it clear you aren't interested? Then, things could progress on the friendly level with said character in a completely normal manner.

P.S. lesbian thing- double standard, no justification for -not wanting- gay romances in the game.

Why will a lesbian romance or an approximation be in, while a male romance won't be? For reasons of the double standard. That's the reality, but the reality makes it no more acceptable, OR okay.


cool story bro, i'm black and what you said makes no sense

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Seriously, it just as easy as getting your facts from HERE

Modifié par Elder Drake, 07 février 2010 - 07:23 .


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Orogenic wrote...

paperbags90 wrote...

Orogenic wrote...

The game should have a gay romance option just from a human decency standpoint.

Imagine being a young gay person already dealing with fear and intolerance in every part of your life... then you boot up Mass Effect (like we all do) for a little harmless escapism... only to find that the game (like so much of the rest of the world) considers you to be a deviant/ defective? This is clearly implied by the omission of same sex romance options.

Are you opponents so dense/ cruel/ incapable of empathy that you can't see this? It would have ZERO effect on your life but could provide EXTREMELY valuable validation to someone else. Grow up. Grow some compassion.


I don't really understand how playing a video game and finding out it doesn't have a gay romance option would make them feel worse about themselves? It's a game. If that's how they percieve it, then that's ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, so are the developers of the game we all enjoy playing. So I don't see why it's so horrible for them to not add it to this game. God forbid there's not one miniscule thing, everyone has to go bat ****.

But there is no need for this gay hate, or straight hate if there is even such a thing. It's a game, enjoy it. If you are so upset about the romantic part of the game, you truly are missing out on so much more of the game.


I applaud you for maintaining a civil tone in your post.

Do a simple thought experiment... pick some part of your identity and then imagine it has been completely eliminated from mass effect... I can tell you are smart, so I'll let you pick one and post back about it.  How would that make you feel?  Both about the game and about yourself?  Try to put yourself in the position of a minority that CONSTANTLY feels persecuted.


I myself am gay, so I do know what it's like to feel left out of a certain community, if you will.I have been made fun of just as much as the next gay person. But, I have never thought throughout the game "Wow, this is depressing, or discriminate against gays that I can't romance another man." or that it doesn't acknowledge my being gay or something to that effect. I play the game, because the story is amazing and I just like shooting crap. Every game is different, and I don't see why it should be made to everyones specifications. I highly doubt Bioware was making the game thinking "We're making this game to cater to ALL the staight people in the world. Screw the gays!"

I see where some of you are coming from, but your anger shouldn't be focused on the people on these forums, but in actual gay problems throughout the world.

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The Demonologist wrote...
lesbian thing- double standard, no justification for -not wanting- gay romances in the game.


I read this in Mordin's voice.

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-_-

Modifié par Endurance_117, 07 février 2010 - 07:23 .