danman2424 wrote...
I don't use the word "abnormal" to describe sexual tendencies that are not shared by the majority. I use it to describe sexual preferences that fly in the face of normal biological standards and science. That is, penis and vagina go together. Two men and two women are not biologically equipped for sex. Nature gave a very clear indication as to how the sexes are matched. Hence, deviation being "abnormal".
If the only aim you look at is reproduction, which from an evolutionary viewpoint is the only purpose that matters, then yes, it is wrong as it wouldn't work. But then condoms and other birth control methods become immoral by extension.
From a pleasure perspective, there is no wrong answer; I'm sure it feels good in any hole. I'd go on to argue that straight couples have sex predominantly for pleasure, unless they are trying to reproduce in which case pleasure is an added bonus. Saying it's right for straight couples yet wrong for gay couples when their only aim is pleasure is a contradictory stance to take.
The thing with the natural order of things is that order is often just an illusion. Nature cannot give an indication, it cannot tell us how things should be done, all it can do is create and let us figure out how it works. If gay people find other men attractive, they work with what nature gives them.
The question is, do you condone deviation or not? I know that you are fine with deviation, but many would be hesitant to completely take that stance. Most gay activists would try to put homosexuality on some higher ground than other sexual preferences that deviate from what biology teaches us is the normal sexual partner match up.
That's why I think it's interesting that you don't. Clearly you have thought through the issue more than others and have conclusively arrived at your stance knowing full well what you'd be getting into. Personally, I haven't decided which way I swing on this issue yet. That would depend on how I feel about the idea of a society where men marry other men, mothers marry their sons or daughters, people can hold sexual relationships with animals and any other number of things without fear of being looked down upon. I haven't decided yet if people should be able to do anything they want just because it doesn't appear to hurt anything at first glance.
It depends on the deviance. If the only harm that comes out of it is other peoples disdain, then I'd argue for that person to do what he enjoys. If a deviance harms anyone in a more direct manor, then I'd generally be against it. Using rape as a bit of an extreme example, some people will only find pleasure if the woman (or man) doesn't consent and resists. This is a deviance that shouldn't ever be accepted by anyone. Same can be extended to pedophila... as soon as it starts affecting other people is the point where it stops becoming okay.
For the examples you used, I dont see why two men shouldn't be able to be in the same state of loving relationship as a straight couple yet refused the same legal rights. For mothers marrying sons and daughters, thats a bit of a weird one, I'm sure psychologists would have a field day working out why a relationship took a turn like that, I dont really know what I think of that. Reproducing would obviously cause a lot of harm as inbreeding is dangerous with relatives, let alone direct links on a genetics tree. As for animals, you can never really get consent from an animal, but they're consious enough to know what happening, so no, I would consider bestiality off limits aswell.
However comparing homosexuality to incest or bestiality doesn't hold up under scrutiny anyway, they're completely different.
Modifié par PyroFreak301, 09 février 2010 - 05:51 .