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not a bad move. What I am saying is that you should dislike Tali's character, not the character development. Get it? You can dislike Jack, but recognize that the writing is unique and well written.


I even said as much in the OP. I don't care for Jack, but she was well-written. I honestly don't get how you can consider a move towards shallow physical preference overriding everything a good move in character development. I see that...pretty much everywhere. Its not unique. Its less interesting than what she was in ME1, but that is personal preference. 

She DOESN'T fall for any man. Shepard is predefined. You had to have saved her twice, and you had to have kept her father's actions a secret. If you see an attractive woman (in the likely case you are both male and heterosexual) don't you think it's just icing on the cake if she's got a great personality?


No. That is the cake proper. Probably why I grew to like Tali to begin with and have a problem now. But fine, its not me. 

This is the same thing here. Shepard is attractive - the fact that Shepard calls MShep "dashing" is evidence of this.


Dashing is not a description of physical qualities. 

AND he saved her twice, and was kind of enough not to ruin her father's reputation, even though it would both be telling the truth and certainly exonerating her from being exiled. If you treat her like **** and tell everyone her father was a short sighted idiot, she doesn't fall for you.


You can always treat her like **** but not tell everyone her about her father and she'll fall for you. But I see where you're going with this, all the relationships can be this shallow. Point, generally, taken. I singled Tali out specifically because she seemed the least likely to ignore personality traits for physical ones given what we knew of her. 

Bull****. The only thing we got from her was that SHE appreciated that MALE Shepard looked past HER suit. She's made no mention of her own view. You can certainly think that appearance is of lesser importance than personality, but also like a good appearance. You can't fault people for thinking that appearance is important or at least a worthy aspect of attraction.  


This would still be hypocrisy, lauding a universal value in others (e.g. not gender specific, tolerance is not more common in males/females) while not holding it herself. In the true "Dashing Shep" scenario he does not know what she looks like (not even anything, really, who knows how the suit is 'distributed') but cares for her anyway. But true enough, she may be less than that and I'm back to complaining about her "new" character.

You don't need show an OUNCE of interest in the protheans. BS. I played the Liara romance. As long as you aren't a complete ass to her, she jumps on you.


HER interest in the Protheans, not yours. She regarded you as an amazing relic, and every time she melded with you she got to experience those Beacons. 

What this amounts to is choosing the paragon option and not being an ass to them. Wow.


I'm talking about THEIR interests. Whether you're a Paragon/Renegade, Miranda would be interested in you as a form of "taking care" of Cerberus' investment.

This doesn't affect the romance, it affects their views. That's it.


...which strengthens the romance and makes it more believable. They aren't just two completely opposite people hooking up anymore. 

Who said it has to do with alignment? The very fact that if you don't gain Tali's trust if you rat out on her father is enough. Don't grasp at straws. Tali is probably one of the most conditional romances. You need to take her on the loyalty mission, and do the right thing specifically. The others? Just don't be mean to them, and do their loyalty missions.


The point was the others appeared to put less stock in the actions you took, they would romance you regardless. 

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HAGA NAGA wrote...
People who oppose the Femshep Tali romance on the basis that "it doesn't make sense for the character" give themselves away when they say it's ok that "Renegade" Maleshep can romance her just as "Paragon" Maleshep can.

No, you're incorrect. Being renegade/paragon is not the equivalent of being male/female. Don't be ridiculous.


No, which is why it surprises some people that for a character who seems to value "renegade/paragon" a lot more than physical traits its ultimately the male/female one that determines it SOLELY. 

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But that example goes for every LI in the game I suspect they intentionally did not want to limit romances based on "play style" and only on gender. That seems quite plausible given how bioth games are played out.



It's not really realistic but eh romances are "hardly" realistic anyways. But to say that renegade Shepard is less valid is just reaching. It isn't in the context of the game even if it should be. It just isn't.



They could have easily accounted for it, but instead went for binary flags to determine the romance paths. Meaning select right dialog choice after gaining loyalty and you win.

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HAGA NAGA wrote...

That may be what some others are erroneously doing. but, i'm saying that people who are Against Femshep romancing Tali on the basis that it doesn't fit the character should realise that Renegade Maleshep being able to romance Tali already makes no sense whatsoever.

Untrue. All of the characters are like this anyway. And you haven't consider that Tali is so enamored with male shepard that she can see past, if see at all, his decisions that she may have otherwise disagreed with. This happens all the time in real life, we become so supportive and charmed by politicians, celebrities, and crushes, that we either ignore or try to justify actions that we would have disagreed with otherwise. Shepard saved Tali twice, AND he's attractive. AND he didn't ruin her father's wishes, despite it being the typical renegade "ends to means" thing.

Femshep romancing Tali is not feasible with respect to her Character = Nothing to support that

Anything is "feasible." Actually, we DO have something to support that. The fact that she isn't a lesbian romance option. Durr.


Renegade romancing Tali is not feasible with respect to her Character = More than ample Dialogue/content to support that


Bull****. The renegade option during the trial stops the romance from happening. And for the record, all the romances are like this. You can romance as either paragon or renegade. Just as long as you don't intentionally treat them like **** during key moments in the conversation, or turn them down. More likely to happen is the latter - they show interest anyway and Shepard can turn them down, or not pursue it.

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Kolaris8472 wrote...

Collider wrote...

HAGA NAGA wrote...
People who oppose the Femshep Tali romance on the basis that "it doesn't make sense for the character" give themselves away when they say it's ok that "Renegade" Maleshep can romance her just as "Paragon" Maleshep can.

No, you're incorrect. Being renegade/paragon is not the equivalent of being male/female. Don't be ridiculous.


No, which is why it surprises some people that for a character who seems to value "renegade/paragon" a lot more than physical traits its ultimately the male/female one that determines it SOLELY. 


I don't think it has to do with physical traits at all. I think it has to do with all the prejudice surrounding the entire Quarian race. Many are branded thieves and the flotilla is despised for it's negative impacts on a system. Shephard, if you play it correctly(i e help Tali with her loyalty quest), sees past all that.

Just because someone's nice to me does not mean I want to jump into bed with them. And I'm all for person over physical appearance. Your reasoning is ludicrous.

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Naltair wrote...

It's not really realistic but eh romances are "hardly" realistic anyways. But to say that renegade Shepard is less valid is just reaching. It isn't in the context of the game even if it should be. It just isn't.


It isn't reaching at all. Tali is a very discernable character in terms of her morals and agreements/disagreements with Shepard & the rest of the crew's actions.

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The end of the line is this.

The romances are superficial in the regard that regardless of personality of your Shepard if you make the correct choices for that LI whatever character it may be, then you will romance them as long as they are available to your gender.

Saying it is out of character is moot because in this one area character seems to matter the least.

Sad as that sounds.

Modifié par Naltair, 09 février 2010 - 08:25 .


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Kolaris8472 wrote...
No, which is why it surprises some people that for a character who seems to value "renegade/paragon"

Oh, who SEEMS to value it? :lol:
There is no renegade/paragon bar in real life FFS. You don't think that the squad mates can look on the computer and think hey, Shepard has his renegade bar filled up half way :o ?

Plus, these characters are not shallow. one character could see x decision as "paragon-esque" the other "renegade-esque."

Plus, there are clearly some renegade options that Tali agrees with. She is very against the Geth, for example. During the loyalty mission you can express that the quarians should push for their homeworld, and that not regaining it is letting the Geth win, and Tali agrees - she doesn't want the geth to win. The whole conversation are the renegade options.

a lot more than physical traits its ultimately the male/female one that determines it SOLELY. 

The romance with Tali is not determined by gender ONLY. You need to save her, and earn her trust first. Couple that with Tali being attracted to Male Shepard's figure and masculinity, and you've got a romance.

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HAGA NAGA wrote...

Naltair wrote...

It's not really realistic but eh romances are "hardly" realistic anyways. But to say that renegade Shepard is less valid is just reaching. It isn't in the context of the game even if it should be. It just isn't.


It isn't reaching at all. Tali is a very discernable character in terms of her morals and agreements/disagreements with Shepard & the rest of the crew's actions.

No more so than Jack or Miranda or Thane and Jacob, but at the end of the day they just have binary flags that you either have on or off based on making the correct decision.

There is no difference between her or them.

They are all exactly the same in this aspect.

No matter how you want to spin it.

Modifié par Naltair, 09 février 2010 - 08:29 .


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The OP has the very true points in this post. Tali should not fall in love with you just because she is a woman and you are a male. The love should build because of how your relationship developed in game. I personally have no problem with Tali being bisexual since there isn't a real Bi LI in ME2. If Bio Ware wanted to keep their characters down a particular path then a lot of the dialog options should be different. Because I have always treated Tali the way I feel about her even my FemShep comes across as being in love with her. It would have been nice to make it where that was a possibility with more then just a few lines of missing dialog because the way our conversation ended before the MaleShep's sex talk started was a bit ambiguous. She seemed to catch herself at the last minute. Now before you storm on me I will agree that people can each go through the same thing with someone and feel differently due to their sexual orientation and availability. However in real life that usually comes with limitless x factors and options. A game has significantly less and should in my opinion be a bit more direct. At some point in game LI should feel that you might be thinking a particular way and clear the air. How hard would it have been for Tali or Miranda to say "look this is getting a bit too personal and I just don't feel that way about you." Or "I'm sorry Shepard I know we are very close but I am not into same sex relationships." It would have cleared the air a lot and helped out both factions of gamers. Those looking for SSR and those not looking for it.

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Why does the bi character have to be female though, why can't they be male?

You say that there isn't a bi option but that option automatically has to be female... I call bull.

Modifié par Naltair, 09 février 2010 - 08:28 .


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This thread is so ridiculous. I can't even properly express how asinine half these justifications for the OP are. Jesus H.

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HAGA NAGA wrote...


Femshep romancing Tali is not feasible with respect to her Character = Nothing to support that



Collider wrote...

Anything is "feasible." Actually, we DO have something to support that. The fact that she isn't a lesbian romance option. Durr.


"Anything is feasible."?

read that statement over and over until you realise how wrong it is.

"Actually, we DO have something to support that. The fact that she isn't a lesbian romance option. Durr. "?

The fact that it isn't in the game means that it is feasible? you really need to revisit the word feasible. Durr right back at ya.

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This thread is so ridiculous. I can't even properly express how asinine half these justifications for the OP are. Jesus H.


huh. yeah. it seems like you in fact "can't" properly express how asinine half these justifications for the OP are.

I agree.

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Naltair wrote...

Why does the bi character have to be female though, why can't they be male?

You say that there isn't a bi option butt hat option automatically has to be female... I call bull.


I agree with this point completely. You can apply OP's false logic to every character, whether male or female. This is just how the romances in Mass Effect are. Aside from a few conversation choices directly talking to them, they fall for you invariably. AND people still seem to disregard the possibility that Tali or anyone else can overlook some of Shepard's actions, assuming they even know of them in the first place. But even then, Tali is among the most conditional romances - you have to keep her father's image clean.

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Why do you always need justification for your lifestyle? If you believe a certain way fine, but don't think everyone else has to agree with you.

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HAGA NAGA wrote...
"Anything is feasible."?

read that statement over and over until you realise how wrong it is.


Meaning, Bioware can do anything. It is feasible in that it is humanly possible that Bioware can make Tali homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, whatever. They have full reigns over her character.

The fact that it isn't in the game means that it is feasible? you really need to revisit the word feasible. Durr right back at ya.

I didn't say it made it feasible. I said it supports it. And it does.

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I won't argue feasibility or the future, anything can and probably will change with Mass Effect as a whole but the idea that one play style deserves a romance less than the other especially with one specific character to prove that said character should be a same sex romance is reaching.



Because that exact argument can be made for any other LI and it would be "valid" even if it is irrelevant. I say irrelevant because the precedent for renegade/paragon paths mattering in romance are already there just make the right choice and they fall for you once any prior conditions are met and the romance actually begins it all comes down to the right choices.



That is all.



I wish it was more than that but it isn't and I can accept that.

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HAGA NAGA wrote...
huh. yeah. it seems like you in fact "can't" properly express how asinine half these justifications for the OP are.

I agree.

Oh, Haga Naga, you're such a funny fellow.Do you even know what asinine is?

But they've already been expressed by multiple people and myself earlier in the thread. But the stupid excuses and "what-if" scenerios and inferences keep coming up. Any idiot can make up "what if" or find "hidden assumptions" in things to back up their argument. It's a lazy rebuke based on your own hopes more than fact.

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I say everyone should be romanaceable no matter the gender, whatever makes people happy.



Also, lesbian Tali= hawt

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Naltair wrote...

Why does the bi character have to be female though, why can't they be male?

You say that there isn't a bi option but that option automatically has to be female... I call bull.


Coming form the position of wanting both for the game, out of all of the love interests in the game Tali is the best suited for both genders. Not that others are not suited, just that it is easiest to see interest from her in a female Shepard. If you look at it that way of course, she would be hard to read if she were a real person and didn't have Kelly there to bold face tell you (and why does she only comment on Tali by the way?).

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The problem with Tali is her character in ME2 was designed to be infatuated with Shepard. If Shepard wasn't the commanding officer on board the Normandy I could say based on Tali's character there would be a 0% chance of Tali joining the mission. The problem is that this infatuation could be misread by the players.



On a side note, I agree that the character relationship flags are much more "forgiving" than in DA:O or BG series but I think that this is because ME is supposed to appeal to a wider audience not used to have multiple saves and factoring in that being an ass now can have future consequences.

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She, Kelly, comments on Garrus as well if I not mistaken.

Correct me if I am wrong though.  I have not played the female Shepard overly much.

Modifié par Naltair, 09 février 2010 - 08:36 .


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Wugger wrote...
Also, lesbian Tali= hawt


I believe this pretty much boils down the gist of this entire thread's existance.

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Brahlis wrote...

Wugger wrote...
Also, lesbian Tali= hawt


I believe this pretty much boils down the gist of this entire thread's existance.


But what if...