Jimmy Fury wrote...
And this is where some of the difference comes in.
Some people (not myself, but others) see that there may be an indication that gay men aren't acceptable because the options were explored in development of both games and then ultimately removed while bi-female and lesbian options remained.
As I mentioned before, there are 4 females that fem.Shep can express interest in: Liara, Kelly, Samara, and Morinth. There were 2 men that were explored as romance options for male.Shep: Kaidan and Thane.
While the Ashley option was also removed from 1 along with Kaidan, 3 new f/f interests were brought in with ME2.
I agree that the inclusion of Zevran and the m/m option in Jade Empire show that BioWare, as a company, doesn't have a problem.
But I think it's also reasonable for people to perceive that the ME team is different.
Again, I don't neccesarily agree with that, but it is still a reasonable perception.
This is what it comes down to for me. I wouldn't suggest for a moment that the ME Bioware team are sat in their offices rubbing their hands with evil glee at not having any m/m romances in the franchise - that's bordering on the paranoid
Regardless of intention, people's actions will have an effect and will be perceived in various different ways. Some people feel snubbed, let down, bummed out (fnar), etc., simply because:
a) Bioware has an awesome history of including s/s options in their work (most recently with Dragon Age - which was leaps ahead in terms of how well it was implemented)

The work was done (voice acting, some animation, story-writing etc.) for m/m options to be included in both versions and cut before release
c) Other romance options were expanded, with Tali and Garrus added (seemingly because of fans' wishes), and more options were added for f/f content (albeit not fully fleshed out like femShep/Liara in ME1)
Taken together, these points add up to a deal of disappointment, and it's something many people want to comment on, inquire about the reasoning for, and vocally state they would like reviewed in ME3. We love Bioware for its inclusive stance - we're just puzzled (and saddened) that such an inclusive company has seemed to pull back a little on this particular aspect - especially considering the 3 points above.
It's not irrational or out of order to question it and put forth opinions on it.