Helios969 wrote...
Morrigan is the woman you date. Leliana is the one you marry. I'm a guy, so Morrigan's predatorial appearence is rather appealing.
For alot of men, it probably is. However, for someone like Alistair, such a scenario is far from appealing.
I'm also not so sure Alistair despises Morrigan quite so much. I always got the impression from their various dialogues that he's like the fourth grade boy who doesn't know how to display newly discovered feelings for the opposite sex, so he throws rocks and calls her names. I half expected to find the two making out at some point in the game. Obviously I'm wrong, but the disdain presented by the game designers didn't always feel authentic. At least from Alistair's side.
I did not get that impression. Some people did. I take into account both of their histories and personalities. Alistair was raised by the Chantry, trained to be an enforcer of Chantry mage law. Even though he didn't want anything to do with that route in life, certain habits/thoughts that are instilled in him are harder to break. One is a certain distrust for apostates, since his whole life life he has been taught they are wicked and dangerous people.
Morrigan ahs been raised to despise and distrust the Chantry. She has stated that she has been hunted and harassed by them before. templars to her represent fanatical religious stupidity and oppression.
Their own personal attitudes are also in conflict. Alistair is a person why tries to look out for and please others. He has a naivite about the world, and prefers compassion and heroism as opposed to blatant self interest. Morrigan believes looking out for one's self and personal empowerment/fulfillment should always trump the desires of others, and helping people too weak to help themselves is a pointless waste of time, unless you personaly benefit. Thus, Alistair sees Morrigan as a cruel, selfish ****, and Morrigan sees Alistair as idealistic moron whos only use is potential darkspawn bait.
However, neither really hate each other enough that they will end up attacking or turning out and out vicious. There is no reason to. Alistair might be a templar, but he is not directly interfering with or trying to oppress Morrigan. Morrigan might be an apostate, but she is not engaging in havoc or trying to impede his mission, nor is she out hurting people. Thus, I'd describe the relationship as civilized disdain and opposition for one another, and given their personalities, their banter reflects each individuals personal methods of insulting/belittling one another.
It's more like to be the banter of political or religous opponents using subtle methods to undermine one another's position that schoolyard "flirting".