jtav wrote...
The only time I had trouble was not nudging her to talk to her sister. That hurt. Everything else was easy. I'm just not protective of her as most of you. Gender difference?
There may be something of that in it, but in my case, it's mostly that I understand her too well. Taking various opportunities for "Renegade" conversation options:
(1) Right at the start of the game, the answer "Are you always that ****y.....". IMO he's being a jerk when he says that. In RL, the kind of people I dislike instantly are those who are intrusive and rude at the same time. I won't roleplay that.
(2) Then the "just remember who's in charge". Really. Such a jerk.

(3) Distrusting Niket: Very much OK. Some Shepards are too trusting, some see what's coming. And Miranda is, too, in this case.
(4) Letting her kill Niket. That's OK. It's what she says she wants. No reason not to take her at her word and let her deal with the consequences.
(5) Talk to Oriana: you could justify that, I think. But it does hurt. Especially after having her kill Niket.
(6) "This [meaning the romance] won't work". This is the thing I can never do. The "take the opportunity before we all die" setup is cheesy, but convincing nonetheless. The same with the pre-engine room scene.
(7) Confrontation with Jack. Well, Jack has a point, but given the choice, I'd never have brought her along in the first place. So I never side with her. The worst I can do is use the intimidation option.