Nightwriter wrote...
I don't want you to feel like just because you like Miranda and this romance, you have to defend the sex scene to me. You don't. This romance is actually my favorite. I hate adopting a defense/attack position to these discussions, especially when I'm in this thread.
I am naturally snarky. I do need to tone it down.
I can't be the only one who's wondered whether the romance was just physical - you've heard that before. A lot of people say it seemed like a fling, especially in the other LI threads, and it bothers me.
You've got the "Who said anything about love? I just want to get you into bed" comment. As the upper-right paragon option. You've got the only sex scene that has no dialogue. You've got the engine room. You've got the "maybe I wouldn't mind you admiring my body" line - stuff like that. The wink in the elevator and the "I've cleared out the engine room" thing was cute and coy, but again it focuses only on sex.
What about 'I care about you Miranda, and I know you care about me' You can tell by the tone of Sheps voice and Mirandas that he is kidding when he says the love line. Anyway I didn't use that one. There is some fun and flirting in the romance but you can tell by the way the lines are delivered that they are kidding and are almost always sandwiched between serious dialog that express real feelings. After all the 'admire my body' line came right after Shep said something very heartfelt. I have heard that point made and it annoys me a bit since it seems to me you could only come to that conclusion by completely ignoring tone and context.
A sex scene should be a sum-up of everything that's led up to that moment, it should address the emotion of everything that's passed between them. Talking - even brief talking - sets the stage for that and builds up the tension for the final moment. I missed that in Miranda's scene. It's okay if you disagree. I don't pretend everyone's going to feel the same way I do.
Again the emotional convo was somewhat awkwardly done in the last lead up conversation and that SHOULD have immediately followed by a sex scene. I get that that didn't work very well for you. What I am disagreeing with is that that means the romance means less or that it means there is no emotional part of the romance.
It was poor pacing that is a side effect of the bizarre need for the sex scene always to take place before the final battle. But it doesn't mean anything more than that.
But I could be wrong, maybe we will discover in ME3 that Miranda doesn't care for Shep at all. I hope you are wrong.