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Questioning her judgement in Niket and questioning HER are very different things.



So your telling me ield, if the woman you loved wanted you to do something, you would question it without hesitation, just because you might not agree with it?



Its getting a little ot from the point again, what was brought up was whether or not we would listen to her dads 'side of the story', and my point is, if you truly love Miranda, you would not, if you did listen, then you are plaving doubt in what she has told you, thus your trust in her, and I am sorry, but that is unforgiveable in a relationship.

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OT I know, but the new Heavy weapon (The Arc Projector) if pretty good IMO, reminds me of using the tazer in Syphon Filter hehe....

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I think I would approach her father the way I approached Dr. Heart in ME1.. Let her make the decision she wants to make and then follow through.. Their is no saving a man like that.. BUT their are much worse things than death.. Maybe hand him over to the Reapers.. Heh..

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I'd probably handle a situation with Miri's father like the one with Niket... I'd basically only stop Miranda if I thought she was about to do something she'd regret later. Otherwise, up to her.

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Flashy91 wrote...

OT I know, but the new Heavy weapon (The Arc Projector) if pretty good IMO, reminds me of using the tazer in Syphon Filter hehe....


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Maviarab wrote...

Questioning her judgement in Niket and questioning HER are very different things.

So your telling me ield, if the woman you loved wanted you to do something, you would question it without hesitation, just because you might not agree with it?

Its getting a little ot from the point again, what was brought up was whether or not we would listen to her dads 'side of the story', and my point is, if you truly love Miranda, you would not, if you did listen, then you are plaving doubt in what she has told you, thus your trust in her, and I am sorry, but that is unforgiveable in a relationship.


I would listen to him only if she wanted to hear what he had to say, I wouldn't force her to listen to him if she didn't want to. I just wish we knew more about her past and her "father" now...!!! DAMN YOU BIOWAAARE!!!

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Karstedt wrote...

Maviarab wrote...

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Maviarab wrote...

No hate here. For that, I'd need the details. There is still the possibility that Niket was a bit more correct that we give him credit for. I don't think he was, but I won't make fast judgments. Not even in a story.

But of you loved someone enough, you would take their word as gospel....if you didnt, then that entails a lack of trust and belief, which in turn throws your whole relationship into question.

Then perhaps I'm unable to love someone "enough". I certainly wouldn't take anyone's word as a gospel when it comes to the decision to kill someone. I do not believe in faith.


Faith has nothing to do with it. Faith is a belief of something you cannot prove. If Miranda says she wants her dad dead because of X, Y & Z, and you  choose to question X, Y & Z, then you do not trust her, there really is no middle ground on this, you either trust what they say, or you don't, and if you don't, you have no basis for a relationship.


This is silly. You can trust someone, without agreeing with them or even thinking they are right about everything. I trust my mom, but she's wrong about lots of stuff. And I would be downright stupid to simply agree with everything she says. I think you're confusing relationships with religion. People aren't omnipotant. Views can be skewed, and objectivisim is not unhealthy for a relationship (though it does seem like it where I live).

QFT.

You can trust someone without following them blindly. For instance, if you were dating someone who said, "My dad abused me my entire life and now he's doing it to my little sister. I want to kill him so it will end. Will you help me?" You would just go along with it?

I may love them and I would absolutely believe them, but I wouldn't kill without a thought for them. Maybe if your Shepard is renagade it makes sense to kill without question, but my Shepard would need a lot more info before he would go in with guns blazing.

When it comes down to it, there are still a lot of things we don't know so it's hard to even speculate on this.

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@ Meg

So true, not enough info...I've changed my mind about how I would handle that situation about 12 times during the course of this discussion.

My gut reaction was more emotion than anything else, then the more I thought about it and seeing what happened with Niket I know that Miranda doesn't always have the up-to-date information that she thinks she does. I still think that the only resolution that makes sense in dealing with her "father" will end in violence...anything else would cheapen that aspect of her story. Maybe we won't get to kill him, but I still think that it needs to end that way.

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What Meg said.

What gives my Shep pause about just shooting the jerk is Oriana. I highly doubt Miranda would want to kill her father if it was just about her, but her sister is a big wild card. Miranda gets emotional to the point of not thinking straight when Oriana is involved. If she thinks her father is going to keep coming after her she may very well want to off him.

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MassAffected wrote...

@ Meg

So true, not enough info...I've changed my mind about how I would handle that situation about 12 times during the course of this discussion.


Well the guy can't be -that- bad. He created Miranda from his own DNA. Apple doesn't fall far from the tree and so forth? :whistle:

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You can trust someone without following them blindly. For instance, if you were dating someone who said, "My dad abused me my entire life and now he's doing it to my little sister. I want to kill him so it will end. Will you help me?" You would just go along with it?




Yes I would. Its called having trust and belief in that person. Same with my best friend. Its what differetiates a lover/friend against just someone you know and talk to occasionally. You have to be 100% committed hand have trust in someone to bein a relationship with them, or whats the point?



As for trusting your mum (whoever wrote that) what has right and wrong got to do with this discussion? My mum is wrong about a lot of things too, but if she told me something akin to the Miranda situation, I would take her word implicitly without question, as I would a partner.

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Karstedt wrote...

Maviarab wrote...

Ieldra2 wrote...

Maviarab wrote...

No hate here. For that, I'd need the details. There is still the possibility that Niket was a bit more correct that we give him credit for. I don't think he was, but I won't make fast judgments. Not even in a story.

But of you loved someone enough, you would take their word as gospel....if you didnt, then that entails a lack of trust and belief, which in turn throws your whole relationship into question.

Then perhaps I'm unable to love someone "enough". I certainly wouldn't take anyone's word as a gospel when it comes to the decision to kill someone. I do not believe in faith.


Faith has nothing to do with it. Faith is a belief of something you cannot prove. If Miranda says she wants her dad dead because of X, Y & Z, and you  choose to question X, Y & Z, then you do not trust her, there really is no middle ground on this, you either trust what they say, or you don't, and if you don't, you have no basis for a relationship.


This is silly. You can trust someone, without agreeing with them or even thinking they are right about everything. I trust my mom, but she's wrong about lots of stuff. And I would be downright stupid to simply agree with everything she says. I think you're confusing relationships with religion. People aren't omnipotant. Views can be skewed, and objectivisim is not unhealthy for a relationship (though it does seem like it where I live).

Exactly. That's why I said I do not believe in faith.

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I thought reserving room for doubt in all things, makes a healthy mind.

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MassAffected wrote...

Flashy91 wrote...

OT I know, but the new Heavy weapon (The Arc Projector) if pretty good IMO, reminds me of using the tazer in Syphon Filter hehe....


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Yep, it's fun. I'll be trying it against geth soon.

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Jediknight120 wrote...

What Meg said.

What gives my Shep pause about just shooting the jerk is Oriana. I highly doubt Miranda would want to kill her father if it was just about her, but her sister is a big wild card. Miranda gets emotional to the point of not thinking straight when Oriana is involved. If she thinks her father is going to keep coming after her she may very well want to off him.


And that's exactly why I wouldn't just let her shoot him without thinking it through first. I don't just act with my emotions, I act with my head and so does my Shepard. If there is a logical alternative to death and if I feel Miranda would regret it later, I would probably spare her father. 

If there was no alternative and the only way to keep Miranda & Oriana safe was for him to die, then so be it. 

Jumping the gun and pulling the trigger straight away makes no sense to me. 

Of course, none of this matters until we know the facts.  

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I take it for granted that Miranda's summary of her childhood is accurate, but that's because I'm inclined to believe any allegations of abuse until I have evidence to the contrary. At least in fiction. Conservation of detail, etc.

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Maviarab wrote...

Questioning her judgement in Niket and questioning HER are very different things.

So your telling me ield, if the woman you loved wanted you to do something, you would question it without hesitation, just because you might not agree with it?

If it meant killing someone, yes I would. Without hesitation. And whoever expected me to kill someone just on his or her say so can go to hell!

Its getting a little ot from the point again, what was brought up was whether or not we would listen to her dads 'side of the story', and my point is, if you truly love Miranda, you would not, if you did listen, then you are plaving doubt in what she has told you, thus your trust in her, and I am sorry, but that is unforgiveable in a relationship.

This is bull****. You just don't trust people that blindly when it comes to killing. Tell me *you* would, and I'd answer you'd said so just for the sake of the argument.
I'd trust her not to lie, yes. But everyone can be mistaken. And anyway, this whole discussion makes no sense as long as we don't know the details.

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what Andy said, if we do get the confrontation in ME3 I would go about the same way I did with Niket. You let her shoot she may regret it later, and killing the guy would make the story kind of boring IMO.




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Melrache wrote...

I thought reserving room for doubt in all things, makes a healthy mind.


"Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is absurd" -- Voltaire

Almost a mantra for me.

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jtav wrote...

I take it for granted that Miranda's summary of her childhood is accurate, but that's because I'm inclined to believe any allegations of abuse until I have evidence to the contrary. At least in fiction. Conservation of detail, etc.


Exactly jtav....if you do not take for granted as truth what she says, then you do not trust her....there is no middle ground on that subject, wy do people not understand that?

lets put it into real life, Ive just recently been betrayed and lied too by a woman I have loved for over 30 years, so i left her. Broke my heart to leave her but thats life.

Now say I meet someone else, and she teels me this that and the other, you have trust what that person tells you and take it as fact (without knowing any further information), otherwise, your going to end up one very lonely individual.

It has nothing to do with following people blindly, its all about trust. If she told me that the sky was purple, then i can tell/see that she is probbaly lieing to me, but without any other evidence, if you doubt what someone is telling you (and were not talking about killing someone, not sure how that came up), if you doubt at all what someone is telling you, then you have a lack of trust and belief in that person, and if thats the case, you will either have no relationship or a very unhealthy paranoid one.

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what Andy said, if we do get the confrontation in ME3 I would go about the same way I did with Niket. You let her shoot she may regret it later, and killing the guy would make the story kind of boring IMO.


Yeah, but I wouldn't be amazed if there was some extra twist. Some face from the past, that might make the decision bit harder. Not too sure what it could be... Admiral Hackett? :P

I am not too sure, what I would do, if she isn't certain herself, then I would give it bit more time. Even though her words about him so far don't really signal any chances of redemption for him. I doubt there was any father child bond there, ever. ;)

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There's another question here: is what Miranda's father did justification for killing him?

There's no question (based on the information we have) that what he did to his daughters was reprehensible. Regardless of whether or not there was physical abuse, the emotional abuse and treating them like his personal property makes him scum.

However, we don't just kill people for being scum. If that was the case my Shep would have killed a lot more dudes. Miranda's father needs to pay for what he did, no question, but I'm not sure it rises to the level of killing him.

Even if we know he's going to keep coming after Oriana, does that justify us killing him? A renegade Shep probably would and wouldn't think twice about it, but I'm not so sure what mine would do. He'd probably ask Miranda how she wanted to handle it, but I don't know if I'd let her just outright kill him.

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Hi everybody!!! What did i miss?

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I'd trust her not to lie, yes. But everyone can be mistaken. And anyway, this whole discussion makes no sense as long as we don't know the details.


Not me arguing for the sake of it. I said (again for those who are not getting it), that with no other information, if you doubt what you have been told, then you do not trust that person. You have no reason at all not to trust that person (especially if you are supposed to 'love' them), so why would you doubt what they say?



I didnt bring up the topic of killing her father, I said I would not give him the benefit of the doubt nor listen to what he had to say, because i 'trust' what Miranda has told me to be the truth.



If you wish to argue, then feel free, but be correct in what i have said please.

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kraidy1117 wrote...

Hi everybody!!! What did i miss?

Not much. There's a debate going on about whether or not you would kill Miranda's father.

It seems the consensus is mostly, no, not without more information.