Nightodie wrote...
fortunesque wrote...
sapphyreelf wrote...
I honestly never felt any ill will towards Rahna. I just equated her spurning of Kaidan as her loss.
Me too.
Hell, I don't even have reason to hate the Citadel doctor. It's not her fault that she was set up with him for a casual date.
And if it went farther, you would have been okay with it?
Okay I have a question along these lines... If Kaidan had talked to the squad members durning the two years that Shepard was dead, then why didn't any of them talk to her about him It was kind of obvious she was looking for him... and for that matter, who were these "friends" that he is talking about, he was always solitary before....
Okay take it and put me in my place

Here's my take on Kaidan.
I am a firm believer that the doctor never got past casual. If there had been potential for more, it ended the moment he learned Shep was alive. The email indicates that the date was recent, and he would have to be a bit more involved than a couple of dates for drinks to get that intimate with her. I'm not a believer that he has to be in love with every woman he sleeps with, but I believe he has to care and want to see where things could go in order to take that step.
I don't think Kaidan would have kept in touch with most of the crew from the SR-1, even if he could have. He strikes me as the kind who would close himself off from memories associated with Shepard as much as possible. That would be anyone from her former squad and crew.
As far as the "friends" thing, he was solitary on the SR-1 because that's all we ever saw of him. I doubt very seriously he's that much of a lone wolf. He likely still has friends from Basic, any of the schools the Alliance put him through, and not to mention from the several tours he already has. There are countless amount of people that he could know that we don't ever see because it's not relevant to the ME story.