Done with the work week. Woo hoo! Time to catch up...
Oh! First: WELCOME POSIONED!
FireEye wrote...
Batteries wrote...
I was thinking about that a couples days ago when I did the Horizon scene. He just seemed really... tired. He just seemed tired. His voice sounded really tired too.
I'd say this is true. I noticed it the first time around - he does seem worn out. Although then, I attributed it to his being aggravated at the assignment (what, with the "everybody hates me" bit that's revealed).
Poor Kaidan. 
I think the fact that we are in sunlight for once makes a difference. When we talk to him on the SR1, its in that weird orange light from his workstation all of his features look darker, while Shep is white and shiny.

But yeah. I'm sure he felt a bit overwhelmed and underappreciated. Perhaps it
was good for Lily to be around. At least he had one person who liked him.
Fire Eye:
This may sound like a loaded question, but I'm genuinely curious how other people feel:
I found ME2 to be a let down. Still haven't found the root of why just yet, only that I had less fun with ME2 than I did with ME1 a month prior.
For those of you who feel let down by ME2, would it have made things better to have had Kaidan/Ashley as a squadmate? For those of you who enjoyed ME2 through and through, you can read the question, "Would having had Kaidan/Ashley as a squadmate made the perfect game?"
I really enjoyed the game regardless. It had good story and that kept me captivated. But I did feel the absence of Kaidan in the game. Made it more somber, which was probably part of the point.
My Shepard would go up, look at his photo after every mission or two, read his message fairly often--besides, I had to feed those darn fish.
Ruby Red
If I remember correctly they were supposed to bridge the gap in ME to ME2 and all we got was Pinnacle Station and Bring Down The Sky and that in no way bridge anything
Part of me wonders if they think that if they keep bombarding us with DLC that we will forget what they said. IDK sometimes all this thinking makes my head hurt 
I think that was done in the comics and books.
Jenova
Thanks!
I agree, it was executed quite badly, even if they had put a just a tiny bit of wavering on Kaidan's part on Horizon, something there and then that displayed he really wanted to go with Shepard. Hell, even if he reached out and touched her face it would give you something to be faithful to!
ME3 (for faithful players) has the potential to amaze or devastate, I am trusting BioWare, they had better not let me down
He was happy to see her, gave her a glowing introduction, a big hug (and not a quick one). I think he extended the olive branch enough. Shepard didn't really take him up on it. Things went downhill from there for both of them and their tempers.
The message from Kaidan is then is the reconciliatory attempt. Granted, its confused and muddled. But he cared enough to try again. That was enough for my Shepard. She was still sad, but she didn't feel jilted anymore. It kept her out of trouble with the other males on the ship.
But its supposed to be a bit ambigous by design. Horizon and the non-committal letter allow the freedom for the player/character to chose to move on with another LI.
Aslan:
That´s true... But at least my Cousland could *order* Alistair to kiss her when ever she felt like it in DA:O.
YES! I loved that! And its was unique to Alistair (for the female characters). No other Bioware LI does that--not even Zev.
@Fortunesque:
I guess the lack of depth in the friendships didn't bother me all that much except with Garrus. These weren't people you were recruiting to be friends with. I mean, honestly how many of these people would you want to be friends with? These were people that were selected based on their ability to get the job done without caring how it is done. Overall, they are a pack of screw-ups/reprobates with questionable ability to see right and wrong the way Shepard, Kaidan and Ash would. (There are exceptions like Tali, of course). Honestly, I didn't really need to get closer to Jack. Thane I enjoyed and would be my first choice for LI if Kaidan didn't exist. But his whole "It wasn't me, I was just the weapon" thing is not the best set of ethics either.
BTW fortune: Loved Parallax. My hubby kept asking me why I was laughing. I had him read the part from Joker's POV and he laughed--esp about Shepard's...proficiency and her glass...friend