Batteries wrote...
JaerWolfe wrote...
snip
I've seen more people call him "whiny" than call him gay. The whiny part usually links back to them not liking Carth, so someone else with the same VA must be whiny too.
Collider wrote...
Carth does actually play a big part. Carth was seen as a whiner too with his trust issues. So some people really did not like Carth and since Kaidan has the same voice actor, they are sort of projecting the "whinyness" of Carth onto Kaidan.
Those are the hard ones to grasp. It so vague and unformed. Very annoying.
Collider wrote...
I hardly ever see Kaidan being called "gay." I've seen it a couple times only. As far as those few who call him "gay," it's just because Kaidan is "sensitive" and not super macho like say Wrex or Canderous or Zaeed. I've also heard Alistair being called gay.
About whining - since people do not like Kaidan anyway (because they think he's boring), they're therefore going to sympathize less with his "problems."
So they're going to see Kaidan talknig about headaches or Rana to be overreacting and complaining. Considering we all know that Kaidan does not whine - I'd say most of the time when he's said to be whiny, people are just saying that they don't like him.
jillyfae wrote...
@jaer: What? Fight? who? why? what'd I doooo? *laughs*
I think a lot of the dislike comes from his subtlety. It's perfectly easy, if you're not paying that much attention, to converse w/Kaidan and only pick up: "He doesn't want me to have fun and blow everything up" "he keeps talking about rules and ****" or "omg, he's talking about his ex again? why does bioware keep doing that?" You have to pay attention to Kaidan.
That I can work with without making a cartoonish stereotyped cliche! Thank you, Collider & Jilly.
Thank you to the rest of those who input as well. It's so much easier to write something if I understand the different points of view and can weave them in.
Sirius, if you're still searching, I'd still like to see what you find.
@Jilly...we're still fighting. Two words: Spider Research
I had to look at
pictures. I may need therapy now and I blame you for starting the whole mess.