Lucky Thirteen wrote...
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I'm curious to see how all of the romances develop in the end. Certainly Kaiden is a rougher one. There's so much anger amongst fans over his behavior on Horizon. I for one perfectly understand why he's pissed and if you're going to have Shepard ditch him after that, then you never cared or understood him to begin with. Good riddance, he deserves better.
well, i would have agreed, but you know, having played horizon umpteen times recently fried my brain into thinking that it's also possible he didn't understand shep. he doesn't stop to find out what she's doing or why. he really does just get angry and leave, then write a "maybe." i see a lot of pain behind that, but it doesn't make his behavior right, nor does it take away the fact that he
left. he left. as in him.
i think given what shep is up against, with little to no support from old allies either, it's very understandable if she decides kaidan is a jerk and moves on. it's not to say she never cared for him or understood him past tense - she just doesn't care or understand as much now. perhaps kaidan does deserve better, but so does she.
however, if she is able to care and understand, even now, then she can perhaps wait it out until she sees him. either she's waiting to see if the next reunion is better, or she's just waiting to tackle him and drag him back to the ship.
either way, i have to say that after playing multiple times and seeing multiple LI conclusions on youtube and in fanfic, i really can't condemn any one choice outright without knowing what the shep's motivations for it were. some sheps seem to be doing a "well i hate you TOO" sort of thing, which i just find childish, frankly. but there are also some pretty good justifications for moving on as well which are more mature, understandable, and reasonable.
YES shep was gone 2 years to him and he 2 months to her, but all the game gives us was that battlefield flirting turned into spending the night together before the final battle. kaidan fell in love. i think it's up to each player what femshep read into that.
(just my...2 centS? more like a dollar.) anyhow, looks like i'm going to miss 2000, as i'll be afk for long while. happy kaidan day!