Shavon
Kaidan, is one of the most paragon male Li's I have seen in a Bw game, and that is refreshing. Others had good hearts, but they each had some moral gray issue with them. I also love Kaidan's personality, probably the best of the Male Li's . . .
As for Horizon . . . Kaidan is very principled, and in reality, I can see him shirking Shep off like that, but I also see Shepard actually trying to explain the actual scenario, (Oh, and greeting Shep with more than a hug >_>) rather than impassively watching the scene unfold, as if Shep is not actually in control.
This is true. He's just a good person. He always tries to do the right, moral thing. He tries to be unbiased by his own history as well. I don't think there's another squadmate like that--not even Tali.
And he never asks much of anything from Shepard. Just her honesty in dealing with him. No special loyalty missions to win his trust. He cares for Shepard (in a romantic or non-romantic way) for who Shepard is.
I can still understand Kaidan better on Horizon. You can see the emotions playing across his face and the moment when he snaps due to Shepard's deadpan responses to him. I know there are a number of us here who felt rather hamstrung by the awful dialogue/interaction choices.
You know what is needed in that scene? One of those Paragon/Renegade trigger options to either grab him and kiss him or to slap him and make him listen to you either way.

Lovestories wrote...
Yeah you know I'm really wondering where all this Kaidan love has come from. =S on the old boards I never got to talk about kaidan b/c there was never any thread or enough people interested. Its weird how hes getting so much love since Me2. Like what changed?
Well, I didn't play ME1 until June. I finally played KOTOR this past winter. Loved it. I got into DA because of wanting to know more how BW does games in preparation for TOR next year. Loved DA. My hubby and I were fighting over the PS3 and I wanted a similar game. So I got an Xbox and a friend gave me ME1 (he didn't like it--well, he's not getting it back now.

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So perhaps there is a part of the population that is just discovering the game due enjoying DA and getting another BW title. Alistair fans might transition to Kaidan better? I liked Alistair, but Kaidan is way more appealing in many ways. Hence I am here every day and never have been to the DA threads.
I found you all here, actually, through your fanart and through YouTube. Finally there were female gamers! I was on IGN's boards and was frustrated about always being straffed when saying I liked Kaidan.
And welcome LIlliCat!
Sialater
Carth was my first digital boyfriend. The fact that Kaidan had his VA was just icing.
Me too!