Nightodie wrote...
I can see where she would be a bit vexed, but I really think it comes down to is who stood by her when there was no one she could trust... that is the one thing that bothered me about Horizon. Not that he was upset... and yes that she couldn't explain, but that Garrus and Tali stood by her and Liara even helped her...
The fact that the man who loved her wouldn't even listen to her... yeah .. vexed is just the start of it....
On the other had... my little paragon ASSets are still just that!!!.... sorry, it's a curse...
I think that "getting past" Horizon as a Kaidan (or Ashley!) fan comes down to two things:
1) You "metagame" that scene in your mind, and think of it as bad writing, and you continue to believe that the Virmire Survivor is a good person who will be there for you in the last game.
2) If roleplaying, you justify the scene with your own particular Shepard's worldview, opinions about Cerberus and the Alliance, or use your imagination to infer that there are other things going on behind the scenes to make the Virmire Survivor AND Shepard to act the way they did on Horizon.
I wish there were more to go on in game to help with this, but that's what it comes down to. Some people look at Horizon as Kaidan/Ashley betraying Shepard, or breaking up with them, but if you *want* to believe that good things will come to those who wait, you've got to take a leap of faith.
Not exactly what I was hoping for in terms of Kaidan's role in ME2, but there it is.