sagequeen wrote...
maybe this is me putting ideas of my own onto kaidan, but i think it's entirely possible (quite likely) that he would appreciate asari while not really wanting one. i mean, given the oversimplified explanation, they are a race of hot biotic lesbians. seriously, kaidan noticing that is not surprising. however, i got the impression that he's not into casual flings (his several lines to that affect) and so that implied to me he was looking for something more settled and lasting. while it's possible he could build that with an asari, i think he's looking for something that is a better...fit? i guess i see kaidan as asari-curious, but truly into human women.
in some ways, i think shep is a slightly odd fit. she brings him out of his shell, but she's not the perfect match. it makes their relationship more interesting imo. i guess that's why it hurt so much to hear him say on horizon, "i thought we had something real" - because i saw shep + kaidan as a very real couple, so it was sad to see that breaking.
hmmm...back to DLC thread. Want fixing of shenko, bioware! please??
I agree. He's a guy. He's gonna look and I'm sure he appreciates the asari asthetic.
As far as
wanting that in his real life? I agree with you that it is unlikely. He wouldn't actively pursue an asari woman simply for the asari allure. If he built a friendship with one and it went from there, that would be different.
I think it depends on the Shepard. I think some are a really good mesh. Others may not look like it, but are. And I don't think there's likely a "perfect" match. I agree with Jaer's fic that with his reading of stories when he was younger he likely pictured himself as the hero on the white horse. With Shepard, he's been the damsel in distress instead at times and she's the hero. I wonder if that rankled him at times. But while she's the flamboyant woman in front type of hero that storms in and takes charge, he's the quiet often-overlooked hero who has everyone's back and tries to bring everyone home back safe. I would guess that he doesn't catch that about himself.