TeenZombie wrote...
Oh, I definitely want to learn more about Kaidan, but I don't want him to change too much, or become GRIMDARK to "un-wussify" him for the haters. I also would appreciate his exposition in ME3 *not* come in the form of a mission where he has to help a family member.
That's a good point. People tend to think they did this with Liara's character, though I don't really agree with that interpretation.
TeenZombie wrote...
I do like the "mystery" surrounding him, and I think it's in his nature to not talk about himself too much -- I think sharing his experience at Jump Zero was a huge deal to him, but it was important that he try to explain to Shepard why he was worried, and to show her where he was coming from. He's not a braggart or a gossip, and he doesn't just share with anyone, but he respects and cares for Shepard, even if not a love interest. It's refreshing and different to have a character that you kind of have to make an effort to get to know.
Yeah, I don't think any mystery involving Kaidan should be something 'dark and troubling', but just seemingly small things that he will share once the romance/friendship becomes more involved and resolved in ME3 or DLC. Like you said, it's something about his character you have to make an effort to find out. But not something as he secretly hates turians or loves Cerberus as that would be OOC.
TeenZombie wrote...
Kaidan also has humility, which adds to his mystique, and confuses the hell out of some people too. It is very un-Western nowadays to NOT want to appear badass and blow your own horn, but Kaidan seems like the type who does just that. He's the guy who will fix the problem while everyone else is busy whining about it, and not take credit, because he doesn't want to call attention to himself.
When you think about, it's kind of crazy that they even made a male character like that, who wasn't the main protagonist.
Yes, I appreciate his humility. There's not many characters like that. He's a very nuanced character that I didn't fully appreciate at first, to be honest. However, thinking about, he's an interesting juxtaposition against most of the ME crew in both games and a breath of fresh air. Someone who's there for the mission and puts it above any personal hangups.