@ Lizardviking: it seems reasonable that Kaidan would end up organizing the groundteam prior to rescue of the Normandy's survivors.
A lot of fic seems to write him as becoming very distraught but generally withdrawing from others, isolating himself and his feelings. I would tend to see him as someone who does isolate himself but also not acknowledging his feelings so much -- really more that he would throw himself into work as a way of avoiding thinking about his sadness. It's a pretty typical response to trauma actually and I've seen it frequently in RL work, particularly with men and with soldiers.
So my own take is that he's a very controlled person. He learned to be controlled after killing Vyrnus and has maintained a high level of control -- he acknowledges this in ME1 in fact. So after Shep dies, I don't see him as going nuclear with Joker, particularly at first. More likely (imo) his response would be far less dramatic - he would be more likely to withdraw, focus on survival, retrieval, work. He would be numb and actually might prefer to remain that way, thus staying busy becomes very important.
I would bet that he blames Joker but probably doesn't say anything to him for several reasons -- first it's too painful to pull out and examine, second, he's very self-controlled so he probably won't let himself lose his temper even though this is an extreme situation and third, by the time he's had a chance to process a bit, Joker may have left the Alliance so they are no longer in contact. This doesn't mean he doesn't resent Joker. Also, I note that after Shep returns to the ship from Horizon, Joker talks about how good it was to see Kaidan again which to me at least, indicates they hadn't had any sort of blow up.
Even though Kaidan's response on Horizon speaks of deeper feelings, I think it's reasonable simply because he's had time to process some of his feelings, making it easier for him to actually say something.
Now I know this isn't nearly as dramatic as most of us like to think about for our fics but I tend to think it's more realistic. But again, this is what I see over and over again in RL with guys like Kaidan....
Modifié par Star58, 14 octobre 2010 - 01:17 .