Jhosephine wrote...
I'm basically treating the ME story as a Kaidan/Shepard lovestory whenever I play the game...it's weird lol
No, I completely think of it as their story. The first game is new and fresh and everything is exciting and looking up--falling in love and moving forward when it comes to saving the galaxy.
The second game is (arguably) darker and Shepard loses everything--her life, her place in the Alliance, and, most importantly, Kaidan. Since the state of Kaidan and Shepard’s relationship runs parallel to the plot, I think the games can just as easily be about their relationship. That’s what I tell myself, anyway.
I split up ME2 enough that I make it about them. She has him in the beginning. When she asks Jacob about her crew, she is most concerned with Kaidan. When she asks the Illusive Man about her crew, she is listening the hardest to his answer about Kaidan. She immediately searches the Citadel for him and gets really frustrated when Anderson refuses to tell her anything about him.
Then she can go and do other stuff while being all sad and lonely until Horizon and it is actually about him again. She can get her one line from Joker (I don’t care that it exists regardless of whether or not you romanced him--it makes more sense if you have) and (ugh) Kelly. But the line about losing more than time is still my favorite in the whole game. And then Shepard gets her email from Kaidan.
I like to save the drink with Chakwas for this part of the game when there otherwise isn’t much Kaidan news. There’s a couple other random little lines that I say are about Kaidan/Shepard, too, but it’s been awhile since I played ME2 so I don’t remember them all...like the one in Legion’s loyalty mission about how people grow apart or whatever it is.
And then obviously looking at the picture before the suicide mission--which I think legitimizes this way of playing. It shows she really is thinking about him and doing all this crap for him. Everyone else may have been able to tell Liara they were doing it for their LI, but we got to see it...
You just need to play ME2 with the mindset that even though there isn’t any Kaidan actually in it, the bummed outtedness of Shepard is directly related to her lack of Kaidan. And there is enough in the game to have your Shepard constantly thinking about him.
Forum Aura wrote...
I've caught myself many times now turning from ME2 and finding some relief in ME1 simply because of the lack of Kaidan and all he entails: the sweetness, affection, the "silent strength" always by my side in combat, the long Mako rides into a foreign sunset... not to sound too sappy here!
I'm pretty sure this is true for all of us. If I just need a quick fix, then I can load up my saves and watch all the Kaidan conversations again. But if I want to really fall in love with Kaidan all over again, then I need to play ME1 in its entirety. There’s something about having him next to Shepard in battle and having time passing with them together that is vitally important.
Jhosephine wrote...
I just want a happy ending to their story, but Kaidan returning in ME3 doesn't mean he's willing to pick up where they left off years ago. I mean I hope he's going to play hard to get a bit
Though not in a "spend the entire time in ME3 to work on the relationship with a bedscene before the grandfinale", cuz I don't want to repeat ME1 relationship wise.
The fact that the rest of the romances will be ongoing--complete with on-demand cuddles--makes me think that we won’t have to wait for our Kaidan love. It just wouldn’t make sense. And here is where I’m going to forcefully ignore any other differential treatment between the VS romance and all the other romances that also don’t make sense...
Phew, it's exhausting being this optimistic, but you guys are such downers all the time.