Melindil wrote...
All of the irrational hate toward Ash and Kaidan really is horrible. I always feel like people are grasping for excuses to justify why they don't like the characters or why they chose to kill the character on Virmire.
And I don't know if it's my sleep-derived brain coming up with all kinds of ridiculous theories about everything, but sometimes I wonder if the hate isn't rooted in something of which people aren't consciously aware. For instance, is all the hate toward Ash the result of the fact that she's a woman who can beat your ass and is totally cool being independent and not being a damsel in distress and doesn't actually *need* Shepard? Is the hate toward Kaidan the result of the fact that he isn't the testosterone-touting brosef who doesn't really have emotions and is going to want to go seek ale and wenches with you after the mission's done and maybe start a couple of bar brawls? I mean, we have archetypes of what males and females should be in games, books, and film and Kaidan and Ash defy those in a lot of ways, as many people have pointed out. Is the hate due to the fact that they (Ashley especially) don't fit into stereotypical roles for characters in video games and the fact that they aren't really catering to the video game consumer base?
I may also be completely cracked out and seeing things that aren't there and trying to rationalize something that has no logic to it at all.
I really didnt want to get involved with this conversation, coz i will propably be harsh and rouse hate but i cant avoid it.
I agree with you Mel.
About Ash: Maybe the ppl that didnt like Ash where the ones that couldnt find her interesting coz of her being able to take care of herself and not need of the Hero to support her in any way. But i bet the same ppl whould romance Miranda to death coz she's a badass and they need to prove to themselves that they are capable enough of bending a badass's woman's will to their own.
Same as the women who chose to romance the badass alliens. Theres a certain appeal to being able to make a badass like or love you. Theres a certain appeal to badassery and its normal human nature.
About Kaidan: the guy is sensitive, strong and has a low profile. Not the stereotype the society holds for men for senturies. What's the appeal of romancing him or be friends with him if he repsects women or dont fit to the "lets get drunk and get laid" type of guy?
Or........for God's sake.....the guy who wants to love and be loved?
I mean...seriously..... the guy does not WANT threesome.......and who at the average teenage boy wouldnt love that?
Its all in the hormones. ( You see Kaidan had the oportunity to do something most of them can actualy have only in their wildest dreams and for that they hate him)
I understand the point of view of most of the ppl that hated Kai/Ash. they are young men (and women) that are still not involved in real life's issues too much and they dont know that at a certain point life is not what they think it is and relationships are not the game they think it is. (Being too polite here)
Kaidan/Ash are normal ppl that you can find in real life. You dont need them in game. Games are for living a life you cant live in real life, being what you could never be in rl, do things you could never do. So normal ppl do not fit well.
I understand that. Were i younger i would think the same propably.
Thats why i dont pay any attention to them haters. I just wait for them to grow up.
For me Kaidan is what my Shep needs. The other side of the coin. The balance. But im old enough to know what a balance means regarding a relationship.
Ok. I know i should propably shut up and i tried...i really tried...but this hate thing is starting to getting on my nerves. And i tried to be as polite as i could (thank God English IS NOT my first language so i cant really use the words i would use if i was writing in my native language)