revan11exile wrote...
I'm not a troll are anything i just want to find out why so many of can justify kaiden over jacob when they or pretty much the same person.
See, now I *know* you're a guy!

Let's compare:
Kaidan is a quiet, reserved, intelligent guy, who grew up dealing with being an L2 biotic, and not only didn't go insane, but ended up in great control. He takes great pride in his position in the Alliance, and is a good soldier.
He expresses concern for Shepard whether or not he's a love interest, and only tells you about Brain Camp because he wants to relate his own experiences to the current mission, and why he feels the way he does.
If he falls in love with Shepard, he makes it clear that he's not interested in just a fling, but rather a real relationship, and if that means waiting for the mission to end to explore their feelings on shore leave, he's okay with that, because Shepard is worth the wait.
OR...
Jacob is not particularly quiet or reserved, and will give his opinion on new teammates whether Shepard asks for it or not.
He left the Alliance because he didn't like to follow orders, and doesn't seem very loyal to Cerberus either. He doesn't seem to like talking about "feelings", and only tells Shepard about his father's situation because Miranda cared enough to tip him off...Miranda being the person he cared enough about to share that info about his missing dad, by the way.
He says he's not good enough for Miranda, but has no problem pursuing a romance with Shepard. He will only tell Shepard he loves her if she rejects him, and he keeps pushing after that, until after the third rejection he calls Shepard a tease.
Yeah...not seeing much in common between the two, other than the fact that they are both human males.