Estelindis wrote...
To be honest... apart from Liara (since there's some actual file-based evidence for that), I wouldn't expect any romance-related DLC. (And even the Liara DLC may end up giving nothing to those that romanced her, though I sincerely hope otherwise.) It's the kind of things that many die-hard fans who are really into the story and characters would love, but we're far more likely to get equipment and missions (as they are seen as having the broadest appeal).
On a Kaidan-related matter, I was just thinking back to my efforts, some time ago, to write Shepard's e-mail response to Kaidan. At first, I filled it with explanations and justifications for why she was working with Cerberus. I figured that it was an actual issue and he deserved to know Shepard's reasons. Eventually, though, when I saw how long the explanation got, I changed my mind. Kaidan's email itself is short and sweet. Shepard's should not be (much) longer. Moreover, explaining the reasons for being with Cerberus make it "all about Shep" - there's too much ego involved in the need for self-justification. Ultimately, I think the two questions Kaidan's email really asked were: 1) is Shepard still dedicated to the same ideals, and 2) does Shepard still care about him? The most important things were to answer those questions... to focus the reply on *Kaidan* rather than on herself. I mean, don't get me wrong. I've read some good fanfic where, in response to the exchange on Horizon, Shepard (or Joker) justifies joining Cerberus to Kaidan. But, to me, there are more important things at stake. Anyone agree / disagree?
I agree completely.
In every relationship, there is a time to be selfish and a time to look out for the other person. I think something that Shepard needs to realize is is that it's not all about her. Yes, she was resurrected and there's a lot of baggage with that.
But Kaidan has two years of pain and old wounds. Those wounds have been reopened; he lashed out in pain. For a guy as softspoken and unselfish as him, his reaction says a lot.
And the email was the best he could do. He couldn't propose a meeting; he's obviously an agent for Anderson atm. I think he was also giving Shepard her space so he could do her job and not have to worry about him distracting her. He had the same concern of 'muddying things' in ME1. He put aside his desire to see her again so that she could work uninhibited. He doesn't want to burden her any more than he already has.
Kaidan is a very caring person, and I think it's time that Shepard returned the favor, you know?