Sialater wrote...
No, Tali had been intended, they scrapped her because they didn't think anyone would like her 'chicken feet.' Garrus was entirely out of left field as romanceable, however, so that is correct. They are big on fanservice. However, the Kaidan fanbase and the Ashley fanbase combined can't outnumber the Tali base. (MAYBE if we united with the Liara fans...) So yeah, we're kind of easy to ignore.
And who the hell listens to girl gamers?
Yes you're right; I shouldn't have said "never intended", I should have said "intended not to be." As a communication studies major I should have caught that.

Still, your argument seems to rest on an "either us or them" mentality; it precludes the possiblity of neither fanbase being ignored. Which, again, is a bit shakey.
Besides, who says that there are no Kaidan fanboys? And we all know that the juggernaut bromance/gay lobby can flatten puny BioWare!