Jhosephine wrote...
Not sure what to make of the DA scenes really. The underwear really made me snicker, fact that it's ugly underwear made it worse. But the flashes you get, the second here and few seconds there, I dunno..just wasn't my thing. I adored the way Alistair looked at the Warden in his though, passion written all over his face. Lovely detail but still odd scenes. In a way I like the kissing scene better than the actual lovescene.
I liked Alistair's best out of the lot, it was sweet, tender and romantic, and fit his character very well. Zevran's made me laugh. A lot!
Jhosephine wrote...
The ME1 lovescene was lovely, but they ruined it a little with Kaidan's dialogue at the end
The only problem I have with that scene now, is that I would want to see more clear facial expressions. Something they are doing in ME2, like seeing them kiss rather than looking at the back of Kaidan's head.
I was thinking about this the other day, it really sucks that in the night before Ilos scene, before the kiss, while they're still talking, Kaidan steps closer to Shep and they continue to talk, but you don't even get to see his face! You just get a sliver of your Shep's face and Kaidan's hair bump. They could have done some beautiful facial expressions there. Budget concerns/time constraints, perhaps?

Jhosephine wrote...
If you want to do a lovescene and not show too much, why not focus on the faces a bit more, on emotion rather than bodylanguage. Zoom in on the bare back of a man who's holding an obvious naked Shepard but you don't see much of her. There are so many ways of suggesting they are making love without seeing full body contact or whatever. You can avoid the big no no areas like, heaven forbid, breasts, that way too.
A man can still seem to touch a woman without having to show the full detail of where his hands are caressing her, but a shot of her face with closed eyes and parted lips can say a lot 
ITA, ITA. As far as sexiness, ME1 >>>>>>>>>>>> ME2. Sometimes less really is more.