KironDrayga wrote...
My first post here and it has to be about Tali.
Let me tell you my story. You see, I'm an interesting sort of Tali fan. I'll confess something: I really didn't care much for her in ME1. She was a fine character -- I liked just about all the ME1 squadmates -- but she didn't stick out. Her traits felt generic and tied to her history as a Quarian, and aside from her unique species it was difficult to ascertain her true personality. I didn't mind the find that you couldn't pursue her as a romantic interest. At that point, she seemed a bit too young to woo, and both Ashley and Liara caught my attention.
But then something fascinating happened during my Mass Effect 2 playthrough. My perspective completely changed. And what's interesting is that I can narrow down the point where I started to find Tali a really attractive LI option to a single moment of throwaway dialogue.
During Tali's mission, you eventually enter what once was her base of operations on the planet she and her Quarian task force had infiltrated. There's a completely optional voicemail of sorts you can listen in on if you investigate the equipment in the area. The recording apparently took place quite some time ago -- maybe when Tali and the rest of the universe thought Shepard was dead, or maybe after she learned he was alive. The details don't really matter, but what I liked was that one of my old ME1 squadmates actually *missed me.* And she brought Shepard up in the course of a dialogue that had nothing whatsoever to do with him. He just entered her thoughts.
...I thought that was profoundly sweet, and quite possibly one of my favorite moments in the game, and even more emotionally uplifting than all the hugs and the makeout sessions and the cute flirtations.
At that point, Ashley, my LI in ME1, had treated me like dirt. It was a perfectly fine plot development and I understood why Bioware turned up the romantic tension by making Ashley and Shepard completely unable to communicate their respective positions. They both messed up, and they both looked like fools, but it didn't change the fact that I felt profoundly saddened by Ashley's betrayal. It sounded as if she had genuinely moved on, and that those two years had led her to develop a life independent of Shepard. I understood her motives. And I still like Ashley plenty as a character. But it left me feeling...lonely. And terrible for my poor Shepard, who really didn't want to join Cerberus in the first place.
Ashley's hostility and lack of interest came somewhat out of left field but Liara's was straight out of the ballpark. In ME1 she was sweet, kind, understanding, thoroughly interested in being friendly (or more) with Shepard. In ME2 she's turned into someone barely recognizable. And like Ashley, she didn't seem much excited by Shepard's presence. There was a brief moment of recognition, and then she went right back into her newfound badass mode, but like with Ashley the scenes felt sterile. There was no energy...no connection. The irony was it felt as if both Ashley and Liara had died (not Shepard), and they'd been replaced by unrecognizable fragments of their former selves.
Then there's Garrus. I love that Turian to death, and eventually Shepard seemed able to break through and reconnect with him. But at first, I was honestly surprised at how devoid of emotion the reunion was. There was a great plot-related explanation for this (Garrus had a crappy time on Omega, he became a different person, he was jaded through his failed attempts at leadership.) While the spark of friendship was still there -- and that was more than I could say for Ashley or Liara -- my paragon Shepard had taught Garrus to be a kinder, less impulsive and more understanding being, and all those lessons seemed to have no impact on Garrus' life trajectory. It wasn't until a peaceful resolution to his loyalty mission that I felt things really went "back to normal" between us. Until then -- as of when I embarked on Tali's recruitment mission -- Garrus seemed like a shadow of his former self, too, and an emotional resonance just seemed to be missing.
So back when I'm about to recruit Tali, I'm somewhat devastated over my ME1 squadmates. Liara and Ashley feel like lost causes. Garrus is technically on my team, but he doesn't seem quite himself. I hadn't yet run into Wrex on the Krogan homeworld; at that point I was likely to assume Wrex wasn't appearing in ME2 at all. It just felt very desolate. As if Shepard was all alone in his new Cerberus world with only Joker and the Doctor to remind him of old times.
...And then I heard that sweet little line in Tali's recording.
Finally! Someone appreciated Shepard! Someone *cared* about him! Someone remembered him, and actually wished he was present in her life!
From that moment on, initial impressions of Tali be damned, I made it my mission to woo that Quarian straight to my personal quarters. Absolutely nothing would stop me.
So, yeah; here's hoping we can hear another unexpected recording from Tali before recruiting her in ME3.
Wow, you pretty much summed up my experience playing ME1 to ME2 with my 2nd Shepard, minus the fact that I always felt strongly about Tali from the get-go and that I didn't romance Liara at all, only Ashley; and basically, while redundant, here are my thoughts on it, as I shared with on a youtube video showing all the scenes of the romance in ME2:
"
I'm stopping after the 3rd scene because I'm playing this subplot out
currently and I haven't reached the end yet... all I gotta say is that
so far, based on the emotional aspect, the Tali romance seems like the
most real. I had a romance with Ashley in ME1 and had planned, with my
current character, to remain faithful to her, but the combination of
Ashley forsaking my Shepard, all the history Shepard and Tali have and
remained good friends through, and all the evidence and clues that
Tali thinks of you as more than a friend, it was honestly fate that I felt
compelled to play this out, as due to whats happened in the story, and
that my current Shepard was fully Paragon in ME1 and has had to make
some Renegade choices (I'm a storymaker RPG player, I almost never play
RPGs as if I'm playing as myself), it would only be natural that
Shepard would feel the same way about Tali and throw whatever chances
he has of getting back with Ashley away for this one bright spot in his
mission"
I literally felt that way, too, that it just wouldn't make sense in the story if I didn't have Shepard requite those feelings back. I like to imagine that in the story, as Shepard is defending Tali in her trial, he realizes how much he loves her with each good thing he is saying in her defense, and their romantic bond is sealed after Shepard tells her she deserved better from her father and Tali says "I got better, Shepard... I got you".
Yeah, I'd pretty much say Bioware encouraged the Talimance, and I went with it completely willingly