The_KFD_Case wrote...
Jake71887 wrote...
wolfstanus wrote...
True but thats beside the point. If you spent alot of time life and death moments etc would you just dump her because shes not what you thought she looked like? I think not
If I didn't find her attractive? Damn right I would dump her, I wouldn't be mean about it; but I loathe the thought of stringing women along or settling into something when I know it won't work out.
A valuable lesson. Staying in a relationship when you don't truly feel all the right sparks that you need for it to work are there is doing both the other person and yourself a disservice. It's an excruciating lesson to learn if you do genuinely feel love for the other person but just can't quite make the last distance. And yes, physical aspects matter to one extent or another (for some people its more important than others but it matters for everyone to some degree). I've tried it. Awful, soul tearing, heart wrenching emotional experience. It still haunts me at times to this day.
Ah well im more of a mind person so it would not bother me that much.




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