sm00thie88 wrote...
Do you know the story from greek mythology, about men and women. Well, may sound hopeless romantic but on the other hand side, there is some true core in it, at least that's what I belive. The main problem in our society is, that we are forced threw media, public ect. to find the one and only person you want to share your life with, and all of that needs to happen quick, because our life is running like sand threw our hands. Moreover they tell us, that in a perfect relationship, there will not be any disharmony, the sex will be awesome and you surfing on a wave of sunny days. We are forced to rush, to find that one and we are forgetting that love cannot be forced and will never be. And we forget the importance of talking, of good conversation and sharing everything with your partner - that's the basement that will survive every storm your relationship will go threw. But that's what we forget, all we want are perfect appearance, wonderful character without any disagreement and overwhelming sexual needs what so ever. We get blinded and oversee a lot important issues. Short version of that weird text: Don't rush, everything will fall into place, but without effort the shatters of your life will be cleared away.
Call me a dreamer, and yes I am one, but some of us live their dreams 
I don't disagree with your comments. I'm an idealist at heart. Living has injected me with a healthy dose of realism as well. I also happen to be a romantic but that doesn't mean one ought to automatically turn all logic off and not maintain some semblance of pragmatism. I've followed relationships to new countries and I do not regret it even though they didn't last. Would I do so again? Maybe. Depends on a number of factors at the time and place. I'm not old but I'm not a young adult either anymore. I've been through the dating/relationship "meat grinder" several times and learned things from it. That's swell. It has also imparted some scars however.
I think it is certainly still possible that I can meet someone I'm happy with and vice versa, however it is not guaranteed. I could also end up never being married, having children nor settling down with one woman to grow old together with. This is just as plausible an outcome as the other. That's not meant to be depressing nor gloomy; it's simply being realistic in acknowledging a possible alternative outcome.
Modifié par The_KFD_Case, 24 février 2010 - 11:22 .