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The_KFD_Case wrote...
sm00thie88 wrote...
Well true that, but that's the tragic part of the whole story. There is this part out there, perfectly matching you. But there's no guarantee you'll find that one. Some of us are lucky, some of us will not be. But just trying to think that way will put relationships in a new light and maybe some of them, your not thinking fighting for them is worth it, will suddenly be. And well, the last person you have to face when things come to an end is you, and in those seconds the brightest light that could shine be the one, that tells you that you tried everything and you have nothing to regret.
I feel compelled to interject. There may be someone out there "perfect" for me, you and others. There may be several possible candidates that would match each of us nicely. As you point out though we may or may not end up meeting them. Even if we do meet them we and/or they may not be in a position to come together. Then there is the possibility that there isn't necessarily anyone "perfect" for certain people, or perhaps not even for any people. Perhaps it has just as much to do with what we make of things.
I'm still a bit surprised by how I feel at this point in my life (in a pleasant way). My most recent relationship is probably the best one I've had to date. It was rough letting go of it yet now I feel...a comfortable numbness if you will. I don't feel a keen longing to be with anyone. Sure, I'd like to find someone to be with but I no longer feel I require it. If need be I will continue to go my own way. The one concern I have about this new found inner strength is that I can foresee it leading to increased isolation over a longer period of time.
Gonna grab a smoke, but just to close that one. That's the great thing about life: various points of view of how it really is and or should be. And yes, everything has to do with how we make things, all that matter. But we act different according to the things we believe. A healthy portion of realism is never wrong, but too much of it overdoses you
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because he isn't very communicative person. 
