I guess there's a lot more to lose when two friends get together, and when it goes wrong, it can really affect both parties. Joey and Rachel come to mind, there, and it was lucky that they managed not to lose everything... but if it goes right, then it can be a lot better than just with a stranger, because there're already friendships, links and ties there. Monica and Chandler, I guess. So yeah, there's a lot more to lose than just a fling with a stranger, but there can be a lot more to gain with two friends. (I swear to whatever I believe in, DO NOT bring Jacob into that)
janeym27 wrote...
I agree - I think in the beginning it's a very close friendship which they want to introduce benefits into as a stress release, but once that's out there, and they both think about it, they realise how much they really do care for one another, and basically think "Why the hell not?"By the time Garrus makes his way up to FemShep's cabin, they've already gone past a line. Either they'll make the physical relationship work, or they won't, but if they don't try, they'll regret it and the relationship has changed. I think Garrus goes through a process of reassessing his feelings for Shepard, and she goes from Commander and friend whom he never looked at 'in that way', to trusted friend and stess release, to centre of his universe. So much of that is wordless, though. I don't think Garrus would know how to put it into words. He tries in that final scene, and Shepard has to stop him: she already knows. I think they just get each other like that.
This. Excellent wording.
They started off as just two people in a militant relationship, then they start to develop a friendship as they work together. Even in death, it was still a bond that remained, and when Shepard came back to life, the relationships and links were still there.
When Shepard brings it up, it's just two friends, doing each other a favour and relieving stress for each other, when there's nobody else suitable for it. Seeing it as just helping each other out, he agrees, if they can make it work, then sure, they can.
But, just the very idea of relieving stress brings thoughts to Garrus, at least, that he does care for Shepard, and it suddenly seems a lot more of a big deal than just friends doing each other a favour. He starts to feel nervous about it, about doing it with someone that he trusts. He doesn't want to mess it up, and he realises that it can really be something more, that he just didn't see when he first saw his commander. It isn't about relieving stress, it isn't about everything out there. It was about them.
Then, Garrus attempts to hide his deep feelings, unsure if Shepard shares these thoughts, unsure if she realises he feels so much more about this than just friends. He tries to dress up, he brings alcohol, and tries to bring suitable music. He tries to sweet talk Shepard. But then it all goes wrong and crashing down, and he finally breaks down, and admits it to the best of his ability. So much has gone wrong, and just for once, he wants something to go right in his life, and suddenly, he realises Shepard understands. She touches his vulnerable side, the scar in his life, and it doesn't hurt him, he doesn't recoil. He realises that this is right. And they share physical contact.
I know this is basically a rewording of the romance and janeym27's words, but this is my interpretation of it, if anybody really cares.
...This really is thought provoking.
Modifié par Flammie, 11 avril 2010 - 08:55 .