Hi all.
Not gonna stop in for long because I have no self-control and if I stay, I usually end up doing nothing by obsessing on Garrus for half a day or so (not that's a bad thing, but a body's got to eat and shower.) I apologize in advance for my response here as some of it is for topics discussed multiple pages ago.
Anyway, a few things.
First, thanks for the Garrus loves Houston and Texas banners! Now I just have to decide which to use. Dang you people making me have to pick between such awesomeness!
Second, body bags in Garrus base?

How the heck have I missed that. Where are they? Screenshot?
Lastly, on the subject of turian marriage and Garrus pairing with Shep in some permanent fashion. Well, we have to qualify that it's almost impossible to make any kind of accurate speculation on this front because we just have so little data about it. Here's what I think we know for sure about turian courtship and mating rituals at least what I can think of off the top of my head.
(For some reason, numbering like this seems to annoy some people because they think it's pretentious or something. I'm just doing it for the sake of organization.)
1) They have some concept of romantic love or sentimental attachment to members of the opposite gender. Consider Septimus being so head-over-heels for the Consort and the turian refering to the asari as "honey" in Citadel Souvenirs.
2) They are quite capable of being attracted to members of different species and forming bonds with them. (Turian hitting on quarian in Eternity. Aforementioned Septimus and the turian/asari couple in the gift shop.) I also think there is some circumstantial evidence that these pairings are not considered deviant or at least the asari ones aren't. In order to get to the status of general, Septimus would have to be regarded as a pretty "good" turian to get promoted. It sounds like he's been going to the Consort for quite a while. When Garrus gets all disgusted with Septimus, it's because he's letting love in general interfere with his work not specifically an asari. "What could a WOMAN do..." He doesn't specify "asari" or "alien." This coupled with turian personal freedoms probably translates as "you can screw whoever you like so long as it doesn't interfere with your job." Now obviously some turians would disapprove of such a pairing as there are plenty of turians who are xenophobic, but I don't think any "official" action could be taken against such a pairing unless it could be proved that the dalliance was driving the turian in question to distraction or somehow keeping him from doing his job.
3) I think we have circumstantial evidence to suggest long-term monogamous relationships occur in turian society. "I am NOT having the life-span conversation with you!" is only a meaningful statement if the turian plans to stay with the asari for the rest of his life. If it was just a fling, there would be no need for such a conversation. "I have a mate and a ship and I only brought one of them to Omega!" Pretty sure that guy means he left his mate behind and is implying he's gonna do some running around. He says it in a lecherous/braggy way (or at least I think he does. Heck, it half seems like he's hitting on femshep there.) The implication is that his mate would be quite indignant if she knew what he was getting up to on Omega which implies she expects sexual loyalty.
4) Some turians engage in and are okay with casual sex. (Reach and flexibility with the recon scout, any number of turians watching asari strippers or going to Consort, several turians that actually hit on femshep) This again probably factors into the whole "personal freedoms" thing. So long as it doesn't interfere with your job you can do drugs, screw who you like and so on (within reason, of course.) "Fewer personal restrictions but more operational discipline" as Garrus puts it.
5) Turians have some conception of sex being a "private matter" or something more than just a biological function. Consider how Garrus shuts the doors when Shep comes by the second time to discuss sex. I don't think he's doing it for her. She grins there like she thinks him closing the door is funny. "Damn, saying it that way doesn't help. Now I feel dirty and clinical." I think that means he specifically doesn't want to approach sex with Shep like a biological function or just "blowing off steam." He wants there to be emotion and attachment in it. Also the quarian and turian in the bar "Excuse me, human. Private conversation!" I know that's for laughs but still.
This part is pure speculation on the use of the term "mate." I don't recall quarians using the term "husband" and "wife" but but I wouldn't be surprised if they do. They seem to place a large emphasis on the nuclear family which makes sense given that they have such limited numbers and they have to make sure that the quarian species continues. I think there's probably quite a lot of pressure in quarian society to have a kid. Anyway, the only alien race where I know for sure we hear the word "wife" is with the drell. I can see the drell also putting large emphasis on the nuclear family as they also have a fairly limited population. So we've got humans, drell, and possibly quarians who use some other word besides "mate" to describe pairings. Those three societies are either very insular, galactic newcomers, or both. "Husband" and "wife" are very defined terms and such words wouldn't work properly in a society like the asari have. A word meaning something much more like "partner" would work better for them as asari might form a bond with literally any species or any gender. I think the same is true of turian society. They have been space-faring for centuries and maybe in the past they had words meaning specifically "husband" and "wife" but I don't think those words be as applicable anymore. Again, given turian "personal freedoms" I think they wouldn't care if someone was homosexual. I think they have mostly gotten over regarding the sexes as unequal (look how many high-ranking females we have examples of on Cerberus Daily News and the like.) And we have several examples of turians in relationships with other species. All that considered, a generic word like "mate" just translates better, but the role meant by the term could still very well be the permanent role usually associated in human society with the words "wife" and "husband." Humans just haven't been in galactic society long enough to get that liberal yet. We'll catch up in a few hundred years. That's my opinion anyway.
Wall of text. I apologize. (But I will do it again.

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