RPGmom28 wrote...
And then there's Garrus. Always
liked him, but when it came to he and femShep flirting in ME2, something
fell into place and I got warm, fuzzy feelings about how the two of
them probably belonged together and how two people in their position
would have a high likelihood of falling in love. And that voice just
makes my toes curl. It's like being rocked in a cradle of velvet.
There's also a quirky thing about the way he moves- a tilt and shake of
the head, a sidelong glance or very Garrus-like expression that is all
him. THIS, my brothers and sisters, is what makes it seem impossible to
be 'faithful to Kaidan'. Don't get me wrong. I like Kaidan a lot.
He's a very handsome dude. But when I see Garrus, it's like running
into your old flame at Wal-mart. You're in biiiig trouble.
This is well-put and what wonderful trouble to be in! I liked Garrus in ME, was disappointed by the conversation flatlining yet still visited him often. I was spoiled on the Archangel reveal but the surprise of the Garrus romance made up for that... here I am in the battery, trying various conversation responses and wow, it all just fell into place, even after feeling heartbroken over Kaidan on Horizon. When I saw the clip of Kaidan pre-Horizon-landing, I was all excited to see him again and then <ouch>. I romanced Kaidan twice (interestingly, the second time was post-Garrus ME2 and knowing that Kaidan was going to be a jerk on Horizon, I was less concerned with how I talked to him so got new dialogue about Rahna since I stopped being polite). Which leads me to---
Kim Shepard wrote...
Aricle wrote...
@ Kim
Shepard: I like your take on it in terms of gratitude, although I
personally couldn't approach it from that angle. I don't feel *that*
grateful. I might try that as a Shepard who is a break from one who
essentially does it as I would.
I think my Shepards are
all a little eccentric. xD MainShep likes Saren, saved the Council only
because she likes turians, and thinks giant human Reaper-making machines
are good presents (TIM would agree). When the MaleShep I'm playing in
ME1 now reaches ME2, he's going to be the total opposite. He's a Sole
Survivor, and he's so paranoid of Cerberus that he purposely gets
Miranda and the crew killed off, then he blows up the base. He's also
going to choose the "concentrate on Sovereign" option at the end of ME1 -
mostly because he doesn't want to risk losing the battle, but partly
because the Council annoyed him. I actually don't have any Shepards
based on myself, but MainShep has the same taste in characters.
I like the differentiation of your Shepards. So far, I have played with the same Shepard with choice variants for romance with Liara and Thane, yet her main incarnation is with Kaidan then Garrus, although intended to be faithful to Kaidan, which hasn't happened due to the reasons described beautifully by RPGmom. I have a few embryonic Shepards yet never got engaged by them. I think that is because I play as me, and Chani is me essentially. The PTs where I do different things with the base or the Council or the romances are like alternate universes.
Garrus made me break from my personal Shepard canon by not being faithful to Kaidan (although his deserving of such is questionable). As I said above to RPGmom, I treated Kaidan differently when replaying ME1, knowing what he would do, and learned more about him as a result. I like the idea of trying to actually play as a different Shepard, not as a variant or alternate Chani, but a distinct Shepard. I do not know if I could do it.
Thinking about Garrus and Shepard decisions: The depth of Shepard's feelings for Garrus are not a rebound from Kaidan
thing, because he was and has always been there for her. At first, I thought it might be a rebound but I do not feel that it is, because he got Chani's/my attention even after specifically looking forward to seeing Kaidan again and feeling hurt by him on Horizon. Chani's personality (mine) is not to give up on or dismiss anyone; Garrus and she have done that for each other so well and so completely throughout their time together, and that is exactly what she and Garrus both need after the losses they have endured. Kaidan's not being able to meet her in that way while Garrus can both give and receive that, is the dealbreaker.